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Young lads and bad manners and ageism ! Grumble .

Ok im 49 if some one sends me a msg i reply to me its comon courtesy if only to say thank you but no . Seems the18 to 30 yr olds cant grasp this concept worse thay think 50 plus is old and gross who else gets this ageism on hear .

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Last edited on 5/22/2020 1:46 PM by Gmd submishion master
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Gruffbear40 (2) 12 days ago

I know how you feel I get it from under my age range too and dont seem to read the profile

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Gmd submishion master (0) 12 days ago

Ive msg a lad 3miles away not a word to reply to my msg

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Gruffbear40 (2) 12 days ago

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At least I would reply to you

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Andi2 (1) 12 days ago

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Reality Check.
Keep in mind that these are 20 somethings. Then stop and think about where your head was at when you were that age. When I was in my 20s I didnt want anyone over 30. I do think that because of immaturity issues , the young ones can be the rudest at times. Though I have encountered ones who are very smart and mature for their age. I have also met guys 40 ,50 and older who are just as rude and immature as a 20 year old. This is just me, but I try to stick with guys that are in shape around my age. There are older guys on here that are good looking, physically and have their maturity up to speed.

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Funfightingneil (24) 11 days ago

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Don't wish to be rude but do you feel he is obliged to reply to you? You shouldn't let anything worry you on a site like this. Many guys are ageist on here and don't want to meet older guys ---- that is absolutely fine – don't need to make an issue of it ------------ ie take it on the chin and chill man

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Squeezeking (13) 12 days ago

Younger wrestler (early 20's) I know gave up replying to most emails that he wasn't interested in after a while.

He once showed me his inbox and it was full of nonsense. 10-15 messages a day and only one of them was even remotely interested in what he was. The young wrestlers just get spammed all the time because they are young.

And then there was the abuse he would get for saying 'no' and he had to take breaks from the site on a regular basis. He eventually left the site but continues to wrestle.

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BamaJDon41 (3) 12 days ago

I almost never message anyone less than half my age. The non-replies I get are from guys close to my own age. Apparently some guys are so popular that they just don't have the time. And the internet being what it is, most guys don't feel like they owe anyone a response.

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Funfightingneil (24) 11 days ago

Don't make an issue of it --- of course there a lots of younger who don't want to wrestle younger and vice versa ---------- there is of course ageism but it shouldn't worry you on a site like this ---- no one is obliged to reply to you if you message them --- why care? Take it on the chin and chill my friend

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BamaJDon41 (3) 11 days ago

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I chill all the time. But naturally I would like a response when I attempt to communicate with someone. I could respond with a 'not interested' to 20 messages in one minute. It's not that hard to do. But the size of the internet gives everyone the excuse to be only selectively courteous.

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Funfightingneil (24) 11 days ago

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It's good you are chilling all the time but the temperature needs to get a little lower still – if you don't mind me saying. When you stop making it an issue on here then man you are finally well and truly chilled.

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BamaJDon41 (3) 11 days ago

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I never want to be so chilled that I have no expectation that anyone would respond to me.

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Funfightingneil (24) 11 days ago

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you should try it

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Tynesider (87) 11 days ago

This behaviour doesn't normally bother me as it is just how people behave but I recently sent a "how are you finding this site" message to new member who asked for people to contact him. I'm still waiting for a reply. That's annoying!

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Funfightingneil (24) 11 days ago

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that's not even worth a mention my friend --- will you remember he hasn't replied to you in a few days - I guess we are all different but just let it go --- if that annoys you there is trouble ahead

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Tynesider (87) 11 days ago

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Sound advice. I must be hormonal at the moment. thanks.

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Funfightingneil (24) 11 days ago

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haha – but you are welcome

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Ironbull (104) 10 days ago

1. Some are shy
2. Some are unsure what they're getting into
3. Some are just looking and don't want to be tempted
4. Some are insecure about their attractiveness and fear rejection
5. Some are immature and don't yet understand courtesy (regardless of age)
6. Some are disorganized
7. Some of them want to use you
8. Some of them want to be used by you-oo
9. Some of them want to abuse you
10. Some of them want to be abused

Sweet dreams are made of this...

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BamaJDon41 (3) 10 days ago

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"Hold your head up, movin' on... Who am I to disagree."

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punchpignyc (11 ) 7 days ago

Guys are allowed to like what they like / especially on a site where many individual men are after very specific kinds of fights and one-on-one situations. All is not in my opinion fair in love and war but it has to be ‘fair’ (or anyway whatever it is) in fantasy. We’re allowed to hold out for what we want in that regard. That said, it’s been my happy experience that my age - which clocked in at 69 on May 7 - does not especially factor in with many of the guys I meet up with, except when it’s a plus because of a younger guy’s interest in older men. But ultimately the kind of man you are is what counts - not just strength & experience but eager attitude and a lust (in my case) for punches and punching. In a way I am more attractive now than ever before - not so much because of physical assets (though I’m assured I have a few!) but because I’m comfortable in my own skin. Which means it’s likely I’ll be comfortable with who you are too. And if we decide to fight, chances are it will be memorable. Try me out & see!

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technics2 (52 ) 7 hours ago

Funny thing happing last week. I received this message before I was blocked. (ok
ok cool, from reading your profile thinking i might have got a reply!!!
no manners).
Only we conversed within a year and I messaged him back 6 times to his 7 even sending him a video link.
He 1st reached out to me March 2019 with (Hi
Hello, great arms on profile). We conversed and we both wished we were closer to meet up. Talked about likes and I sent a video link. He sent the great arms message again in March 2020 so I replied this time with a "Thanks". Sent again on May 26th. May 28th he sent me the message about my manners and blocked me. Kinda funny but sad at the same time. I think he was in his 30s or 40s. Just to point out that this is social media. You will see all kind and can't please everyone. We shouldn't expect everyone to behave how we wish them to do so. Just keep it moving. There are too many other here to connect with.

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