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What is the perfect age on MeetFighters?
I'm 60 and I love being headscissored. I want to find nice young guys to give me a good squeeze. No sex - just a good squeeze. I'm safe, polite, clean, appreciative, not embarrassing. MF being the wonderful site it is, I've found some good squeezes, thank you. Sadly, I've been blocked a couple of times (e.g., most recently by N**** who sounds like such a nice, tolerant guy) when young people see my age. (This is a real bug-bear for me: blocking should never be necessary. Just tell me that you're not interested and I'll never bother you again.)
Now, this week, I've been contacted by a nice young guy half a world away (I'm in the UK) who has noted that I've been head scissored and wants to know what it's like. He wants so much to get a squeeze himself but says that he is too young, that people want him to be "experienced" before they'll meet him.
Mad or what?
I don't know what the answer is but I suppose I find some consolation, aged 60, that apparently being old, being fat and out of shape aren't necessarily the only blocks to finding really nice people for a bit of fun and the odd head scissor squeeze here at MF. Being too young, fit, looking good in your kit: apparently that's no good either.
E-mail me if you'd like to give a nice young guy in the southern USA his first, wished-for experience of a head scissor squeeze.
And e-mail me too if you're young, strong, smooth and would be ok to head scissor a nice older guy (me!) In Kent, London or southeast UK.
Edward
synxiec (62)
9/08/2016 6:26 PMI'm just curious about who the guy is in the southeast US.
Other than that, the things I'd say here I posted elsewhere (on MF for clarity). Besides, what could I add?
untouchable1 (12)
8/19/2016 6:51 PMEveryone has a different preference, people don't like to respect said preferences, and get butthurt when they are outside said person's boundaries.
It always has and always will be this way unfortunately.
edscissors (30 )
8/19/2016 7:14 PM(In reply to this)
Thanks so much for your comment, "untouchable1". Being rejected (blocked) or vilified because of one's preferences is not so easy but isn't it great that there are so many nice, encouraging people on our site?
hephaestion2014 (52)
8/19/2016 11:16 AMI agree with the above comment.
Recently had a discussion with a friend whose in his late 50s who was complaining that younger guys weren't interested in guys his age.
Perhaps because I'm in a bit of pain, I was a bit short with him.
My response;
"How can you expect 19yrs old guys to find guys in their late 50s worth wrestling when you a guy in your late 50s don't find people your own age worth wrestling and are signalling to younger guys the same thing?"
Age to me doesn't mean anything. Two of the best wrestlers I have come across - one is in his early twenties, the other is a little bit older than that, up from your age.
I will, like The Kestrel, wrestle anyone, any age and any size but if you limit yourself down to a certain range and exclude others due to your personal preference for age (which is your right) then really when others do the same thing, not really sure you can gripe but take it on the chin.
I do hope you find what you are looking for though but as its a narrow range, you might it find tricky.
Sometimes people also don't know what they like till they do it - you'd never have got me doing pro when I first joined, but I'm softening to it. So the opponent for you might be out there right now, not knowing that they like just head-scissoring guys yet.
edscissors (30 )
8/19/2016 11:54 AM(In reply to this)
Thank you both for your absolutely fair comments. I'm sorry if what I wrote came across as a gripe: I just thought it was funny that for many people I am too old (probably true - I understand that) while my young friend who would seem to have everything going for him is finding he's thought too young.
To each, his own, and thanks so much for taking the trouble to respond.
Edward
The Kestrel (49 )
8/19/2016 8:58 AMI do not think there should be an age barrier, amd i feel it is a shame when people blinker themselves in such a manner.
But i don't think it is all about age, from my point of view, so long as yer physically able and willing to have a good match then i am all for it. If it is just a bit of fun and one sided easy going stuff then i am a bit more selective to be frank. A lot of people may echo this view.
What you look for does shorten the list of potential candidates for a session with you, that is just how it goes unfortunately as this site is aimed at those who want a wrestle fight, so your demographics here are limitted.
I personally don't see anything wrong with what you seek, but it is not for myself if i am honest, and i do not feel you should be disappointed when you come across many with a similar mind-set on this site.