Hang on boys, I'm going full form here because I feel like people here would appreciate it and relate. This is not just a personals ad, it's a full expression of kink so enjoy.
It's no secret that I LOVE bodyscissors and I have had some scattered amazing experiences but I can honestly probably count them on one hand. My dream since my freshman year in college, roughly 2003, was to find a regular scissor buddy in Seattle to lock me up. Sadly, every experience I've had was in a state about as far as you can go in the US from Washington. The closest guy was in San Jose and he's moved to Florida!
So what does the ideal person look like? Physically I'm pretty open but I do want someone I can connect with, though being into scissors is great for starters. What really matters is that they are a sadist with the strength, technique, and endurance to back it up. When I bottom to bodyscissors I tend to outlast the top even guys who said they don't tire. Not saying that you need that kind of endurance, I'm just saying I can take a lot. I can take a lot pressure-wise as well.
When I was a teenager and first coming into my scissor fetish I found a few short stories online and one of my favorites was written by a friend of mine where he and his friend would watch TV together with him held in a scissor and whenever it cut to commercial (for the youngins out there commercials were like a series of video ads which interrupted your show for about 5 minutes and you couldn't skip them) the friend would crush the shit out of his victim and when the show came back on he would just hold him. I love love love that. I would go back to cable programming just for that if I could.
I also love bondage, claustrophobia, and panic. Another fantasy of mine is to be tied up (no crappy bondage allowed boys, do your homework and practice that shit) and be crushed to the point of panic and not be able to do anything about it. Not looking to get injured and some things can help get there like wearing a gas mask and plugging the air intake, bagging, kissing with breath control.
Headscissors aren't as much of a turn on for me but I love spandex and having my face in someone's balls. It's very hot to me to be struggling to breath with my mouth and nose obstructed by his balls while my neck is getting squeezed.
I prefer if we wear spandex and my preference goes in this order: singlets, tights with no seam up the middle front (they make it look like you're strangling a turtle down there), compression shorts/brazilian cut swimwear (squarecut, not a thong), speedo.
There is another element to a scissor scene which is the most necessary and that is the top's mentality about it. For a while I was thinking about it in terms of him not caring if I'm having fun or not but that doesn't really hit the nail on the head. When it comes to topping, for me at least, out side of not causing injury, the top's primary concern is his own enjoyment knowing he is causing suffering. Ok, maybe it's a narcissism where he gets off on how strong he is and he's just showing off his power. Maybe it's sadism. I usually don't care what drives the dom to do what he does but doing it because I like it makes it like getting a very unenthusiastic handjob and that just won't do. I'm not usually one for trash talk but if that's part of it for you then go right ahead.
Now, one criticism I have for one top I played with was that he always went for the most painful position with max pressure all the time because he wanted the fast tap, the problem with that is the bottom gets too sore too fast (yes, I'm guilty of doing this myself). Another friend loves body triangles because you can muscle it when you want to but you can also just hold and there are little tweaks you can make to conserve energy while still holding your sub in discomfort. I like that idea more because the top can take a break without the sub taking a break. Personally I use the knee ride position (aka knee on belly in some BJJ schools) between squeeze positions for the same reason.
I do have a guy in Portland OR lined up whenever I get caught up on house projects but the dream of someone truly local is still just a dream. If I could I would do no less than a session a week, I'm sure many people reading this feel the same way. Economically I don't see taking as many trips this year as I would like but who knows what the future holds. If you're in my area, drop me a line and if you want me to visit you let me know and if it's possible then I'll do what I can. Thanks for reading.
This was a good read. I used to have a friend I'd get together with on a semi-weekly basis. He was 6'3" 255 to my 5'6' 190. Once he got a hold of me that was it as he put me through various holds before locking me up in a frontal head scissor and just hold me there, flexing and relaxing while he read a book, watched movies or played games on his Ipad. Occasionally taking me to the brink of passing out. He loved having that power over me I loved feeling his power. Unfortunately, he moved to California, and I haven't found another friend like that.
ChrisWrestling (39 )
7/15/2022 6:40 AMHang on boys, I'm going full form here because I feel like people here would appreciate it and relate. This is not just a personals ad, it's a full expression of kink so enjoy.
It's no secret that I LOVE bodyscissors and I have had some scattered amazing experiences but I can honestly probably count them on one hand. My dream since my freshman year in college, roughly 2003, was to find a regular scissor buddy in Seattle to lock me up. Sadly, every experience I've had was in a state about as far as you can go in the US from Washington. The closest guy was in San Jose and he's moved to Florida!
So what does the ideal person look like? Physically I'm pretty open but I do want someone I can connect with, though being into scissors is great for starters. What really matters is that they are a sadist with the strength, technique, and endurance to back it up. When I bottom to bodyscissors I tend to outlast the top even guys who said they don't tire. Not saying that you need that kind of endurance, I'm just saying I can take a lot. I can take a lot pressure-wise as well.
When I was a teenager and first coming into my scissor fetish I found a few short stories online and one of my favorites was written by a friend of mine where he and his friend would watch TV together with him held in a scissor and whenever it cut to commercial (for the youngins out there commercials were like a series of video ads which interrupted your show for about 5 minutes and you couldn't skip them) the friend would crush the shit out of his victim and when the show came back on he would just hold him. I love love love that. I would go back to cable programming just for that if I could.
I also love bondage, claustrophobia, and panic. Another fantasy of mine is to be tied up (no crappy bondage allowed boys, do your homework and practice that shit) and be crushed to the point of panic and not be able to do anything about it. Not looking to get injured and some things can help get there like wearing a gas mask and plugging the air intake, bagging, kissing with breath control.
Headscissors aren't as much of a turn on for me but I love spandex and having my face in someone's balls. It's very hot to me to be struggling to breath with my mouth and nose obstructed by his balls while my neck is getting squeezed.
I prefer if we wear spandex and my preference goes in this order: singlets, tights with no seam up the middle front (they make it look like you're strangling a turtle down there), compression shorts/brazilian cut swimwear (squarecut, not a thong), speedo.
There is another element to a scissor scene which is the most necessary and that is the top's mentality about it. For a while I was thinking about it in terms of him not caring if I'm having fun or not but that doesn't really hit the nail on the head. When it comes to topping, for me at least, out side of not causing injury, the top's primary concern is his own enjoyment knowing he is causing suffering. Ok, maybe it's a narcissism where he gets off on how strong he is and he's just showing off his power. Maybe it's sadism. I usually don't care what drives the dom to do what he does but doing it because I like it makes it like getting a very unenthusiastic handjob and that just won't do. I'm not usually one for trash talk but if that's part of it for you then go right ahead.
Now, one criticism I have for one top I played with was that he always went for the most painful position with max pressure all the time because he wanted the fast tap, the problem with that is the bottom gets too sore too fast (yes, I'm guilty of doing this myself). Another friend loves body triangles because you can muscle it when you want to but you can also just hold and there are little tweaks you can make to conserve energy while still holding your sub in discomfort. I like that idea more because the top can take a break without the sub taking a break. Personally I use the knee ride position (aka knee on belly in some BJJ schools) between squeeze positions for the same reason.
I do have a guy in Portland OR lined up whenever I get caught up on house projects but the dream of someone truly local is still just a dream. If I could I would do no less than a session a week, I'm sure many people reading this feel the same way. Economically I don't see taking as many trips this year as I would like but who knows what the future holds. If you're in my area, drop me a line and if you want me to visit you let me know and if it's possible then I'll do what I can. Thanks for reading.
pressurelover (1)
7/15/2022 6:30 PM(In reply to this)
This was a good read. I used to have a friend I'd get together with on a semi-weekly basis. He was 6'3" 255 to my 5'6' 190. Once he got a hold of me that was it as he put me through various holds before locking me up in a frontal head scissor and just hold me there, flexing and relaxing while he read a book, watched movies or played games on his Ipad. Occasionally taking me to the brink of passing out. He loved having that power over me I loved feeling his power. Unfortunately, he moved to California, and I haven't found another friend like that.