Because your handsome physical appearance fits their fantasy dream. Accept it as a compliment and thank them, but simply tell them "no thanks" on the invitation to be their dominant opponent.
Thank you. I always do exactly that...some however continue to send messages to that effect...I just very politely respond the same..'no thank-you"...but a few still persist. I was just curious if there was maybe a reason I was missing. Yes...all I can do is politely decline...and then just stop responding altogether if they insist. I just don't want to hurt anyone feelings.
Launce
I appreciate your insights about men's feelings in here. As a veteran of this chat room, anyone who insists on you changing desires, skills etc is generally not legit. There are a lot of fakes, and like the former man said.. alot of fantasy gets projected in here.
Honesty is always the BEST policy. If it loses you fights or friends, then they weren't worth the effort
I'm curious if anyone can provide some insight into this for me....A few guys...actually several now...and every now and again, contact me and express their interest in meeting up, etc. Almost immediately comes the suggestion...or even insistence, that I change or at least attempt to "switch" from a Sub/Jobber to a Dom/Heel....and back and forth...50/50, I believe it's expressed often.
No. That's not me!
I expressly state that I am a sub/jobber on my profile. I am extremely flattered that guys find me interesting, etc...but WHY try and change me to suit what YOU want from me? IF YOU want..,
AS I DO..
someone to rough you up, etc, there ARE plenty here that would oblige. For anyone interested in a complete sub...(*I DO put up a fight tho...*), you could not find a better one, and I'm all in. If not, please don't ask me to do that....it's actually a bit off-putting really, and the messaging to that effect just makes me want to not communicate.
Anyone else experience this?? Does anyone have a clue why guys would do this? Thank you!
scubawrestler (91 )
5/03/2020 3:59 PMBecause your handsome physical appearance fits their fantasy dream. Accept it as a compliment and thank them, but simply tell them "no thanks" on the invitation to be their dominant opponent.
launce (0)
5/03/2020 9:28 PM(In reply to this)
Thank you. I always do exactly that...some however continue to send messages to that effect...I just very politely respond the same..'no thank-you"...but a few still persist. I was just curious if there was maybe a reason I was missing. Yes...all I can do is politely decline...and then just stop responding altogether if they insist. I just don't want to hurt anyone feelings.
BOXERMAN (40)
5/04/2020 1:06 AM(In reply to this)
Launce
I appreciate your insights about men's feelings in here. As a veteran of this chat room, anyone who insists on you changing desires, skills etc is generally not legit. There are a lot of fakes, and like the former man said.. alot of fantasy gets projected in here.
Honesty is always the BEST policy. If it loses you fights or friends, then they weren't worth the effort
Welcome and glad you are here
Boxerman Robert
launce (0)
5/04/2020 1:17 AM(In reply to this)
Thank you BOXERMAN...it is very much appreciated.
launce (0)
5/01/2020 1:01 AMI'm curious if anyone can provide some insight into this for me....A few guys...actually several now...and every now and again, contact me and express their interest in meeting up, etc. Almost immediately comes the suggestion...or even insistence, that I change or at least attempt to "switch" from a Sub/Jobber to a Dom/Heel....and back and forth...50/50, I believe it's expressed often.
No. That's not me!
I expressly state that I am a sub/jobber on my profile. I am extremely flattered that guys find me interesting, etc...but WHY try and change me to suit what YOU want from me? IF YOU want..,
AS I DO..
someone to rough you up, etc, there ARE plenty here that would oblige. For anyone interested in a complete sub...(*I DO put up a fight tho...*), you could not find a better one, and I'm all in. If not, please don't ask me to do that....it's actually a bit off-putting really, and the messaging to that effect just makes me want to not communicate.
Anyone else experience this?? Does anyone have a clue why guys would do this? Thank you!