Stakes, Spoils, and Post-Match Punishment

Hi Dan:

I understand what you're saying about those "loser is first to cum" fights. In a way it is unfortunate that the loser in such a game is permitted the pleasure of an orgasm.

But on the other hand, AFTER orgasm it is really annoying to be the SUB/bottom in sexual play.

For example AFTER orgasm even guys who are really into spanking do NOT want to get spanked! After orgasm getting spanked is the last thing in the world that they want.

Likewise, getting fucked up the ass is not fun after you have just squirted your cum and your cock has gone limp. I have seen losers in a "loser is first to cum" fight really freak out when they see their victorious opponent putting a condom on and they realize that they must submissively put up with.a post-orgasm fuck. When it's time to get fucked the loser really regrets cumming first!

That's a good point. I know that once I've burst I'm no longer interested in anything sexual. If I had to pay up somehow at that point that would feel like a real loss.

That's pretty erotic even if it's not exactly my cup of tea so to speak. I do agree that the loser should lose and getting to have an orgasm isn't exactly losing. That's why I'm confused by the idea behind the first to burst loses bouts. Anyway thanks for taking the time to post it.

Hi.

Games with an interesting and diabolical loser's punishment are hot! :-) I think that a good loser's punishment is something that both guys are able to tolerate if they are the loser (so there is no backing out by the loser) BUT the punishment should be something that both guys really want to avoid so that they are highly motivated to try and win the game. ;-)

I think one very interesting and exciting arrangement is that the deal that the loser will have his cock locked into a chastity device and then the loser will be the winner's submissive for whatever sexual fun the winner wants.

For example, after the loser's cock is securely locked in the chastity device perhaps the winner will order the loser to give him a nice long and relaxing erotic massage. Then the winner will order the loser will suck his cock for a while. The loser will do a good job of providing sexual service because he will not be distracted by his own cock. Then the winner might slip a condom on his hard cock, squirt on a little lube and order the loser to submit to a hard ass-fucking. The entire time during all the sex play the loser's cock remains securely locked in the chastity device - untouched and ignored. As the loser gives pleasure to the winner, gets fucked and watches the winner having a wonderful time and ultimately having a fantastic orgasm he will be jealous that his cock does not get any attention. As the winner enjoys amazing erotic pleasure he should "rub it in" by talking about how wonderful his cock feels. The winner should try to make the loser feel as frustrated as possible.

After the winner has his orgasm they relax and cuddle. The winner talks about how good the sex was and how great it was to have a big orgasm. As they cuddle and relax the winner makes no move to unlock the loser penis from the chastity device. The loser must just look at his locked up cock and accept the fact that his penis will not get any fun. Orgasms are for winners. Losers don't get to cum!

Perhaps after a while of resting the winner feels like fucking again. Or perhaps the winner feels like giving the loser a spanking. No matter what the winner demands the loser should be a good sport and submit to the winners desires. :-)

At the end of the post-game sex session the chastity device can be unlocked when it is time for the players to say goodbye. Or perhaps they both walk to the post office and the winner puts the key to the loser's chastity device in the mailbox (mailing it to the loser's house), so that the loser gets a few days of chastity added to his post-game punishment.

I have played games of chance with chastity for the loser and it has been very exciting and fun. ha ha :-)

This sounds interesting and hot