There is NOTHING wrong with you. I have also been rejected by many rude guys. Just take it for what it is worth. Many guys have no intent on really meeting to wrestle. They get off talking about it. Stay strong buddy and you ugly? No way! Bob
It's going to be a long time before anyone can safely meet. So considering or hoping for a match now is unrealistic. Forget the rude guys. If they can't be friendly then they're the ones with a problem. You've got a great smile in some of your pics. Those are your best photos.
Buddy! I have messaged you many times. I get tons of rejections. It is hard. However, when you find someone who actually meets and has a good time, it is worth it. It is about chemistry. Some on here have unrealistic specifications and they will never wrestle. When a person realizes that this isn’t a physique contest, but instead just a fire inside to test himself while enjoying the man to man struggle, and not imposing unrealistic expectations, then a great time is in store. I personally find you hot. Those nips drive me crazy. You look tough. I have offered to drive to your place several times. I want to wrestle you. However, you are very limited in your availability. Logistics make it hard sometimes. Don’t get discouraged. There are guys on here who want you. I’m number one. Bring it, stud
I am a returning member who has come and gone many times. I become frustrated and leave, but the intetest in wtestling pulls me back. There are a lot of guys on this site who get a lot of matches, but that hasn't ever happened for me. I don't really have any advice or suggestions, only to say you are not the only one who has had this experience.
Well presentation is everything; and although we can't change our face, we can change how you present ourselves to others. Ask this question, am I presenting myself in the best light possible? Now look at your photographs. At least one of them looks like you took it just after you rolled out of bed.
As far as being out of shape, that most certainly is within your control. However, that all depends on the opponents you're looking for. It matters to some a lot more than others. You need to decide which group is more important to you, and adapt accordingly from there.
The other problem I see (and you're not alone here) is your intro. An intro/profile is your greeting, and about your interests and capabilities. It is the time you introduce yourself to others in your best light. It should NEVER be a lecture or an ultimatum instructing others on how to behave. That's not what its for. Leave this type of negativity out, and include only positive things. One approach is to image you're a prospective employee looking for a job. Would you include the things wrong with employers, or instruct them on how you think they should respond to applicants?
Save that diatribe for a blog, or even better, this section. Remember, you can't control the behavior of others, only yourself.
Just checked out your profile and I'm impressed - fine looking fella with a fit, strong body - what's not to like? I'd be happy to set up a wrestle with you one day if we're ever in the same country! Sometimes schedules can't be helped so hang in there and keep trying fella!
Olderdesire says he is first on the list to wrestle you, but he is actually second. I am first. Don't be discouraged, stay the course and keep in touch with those guys that like you. Chat, flirt, talk it up because we will soon be out from under this and will be free to travel and meet! Stay strong man!
Olderdesire and Rasslebarefoot....I had my eye on this guy since I joined here in May....I will wrestle the both of you (one at a time please) for the first shot at him. This guy gets me beyond riled... find him to be hot as hell....messaged him often....and I will wrestle this Stud one day (even if I am not the first in line). Yeah, my type of guy and wrestler.....get behind me in line, boys.
gardenboy (18)
4/21/2020 3:55 AMThere is NOTHING wrong with you. I have also been rejected by many rude guys. Just take it for what it is worth. Many guys have no intent on really meeting to wrestle. They get off talking about it. Stay strong buddy and you ugly? No way! Bob
BamaJDon41 (10 )
4/21/2020 4:11 AMIt's going to be a long time before anyone can safely meet. So considering or hoping for a match now is unrealistic. Forget the rude guys. If they can't be friendly then they're the ones with a problem. You've got a great smile in some of your pics. Those are your best photos.
olderdesire (14)
4/21/2020 5:04 PMBuddy! I have messaged you many times. I get tons of rejections. It is hard. However, when you find someone who actually meets and has a good time, it is worth it. It is about chemistry. Some on here have unrealistic specifications and they will never wrestle. When a person realizes that this isn’t a physique contest, but instead just a fire inside to test himself while enjoying the man to man struggle, and not imposing unrealistic expectations, then a great time is in store. I personally find you hot. Those nips drive me crazy. You look tough. I have offered to drive to your place several times. I want to wrestle you. However, you are very limited in your availability. Logistics make it hard sometimes. Don’t get discouraged. There are guys on here who want you. I’m number one. Bring it, stud
Tungsten (3 )
4/21/2020 11:45 PMI am a returning member who has come and gone many times. I become frustrated and leave, but the intetest in wtestling pulls me back. There are a lot of guys on this site who get a lot of matches, but that hasn't ever happened for me. I don't really have any advice or suggestions, only to say you are not the only one who has had this experience.
Juggernaut (0)
4/22/2020 12:01 AMWell presentation is everything; and although we can't change our face, we can change how you present ourselves to others. Ask this question, am I presenting myself in the best light possible? Now look at your photographs. At least one of them looks like you took it just after you rolled out of bed.
As far as being out of shape, that most certainly is within your control. However, that all depends on the opponents you're looking for. It matters to some a lot more than others. You need to decide which group is more important to you, and adapt accordingly from there.
The other problem I see (and you're not alone here) is your intro. An intro/profile is your greeting, and about your interests and capabilities. It is the time you introduce yourself to others in your best light. It should NEVER be a lecture or an ultimatum instructing others on how to behave. That's not what its for. Leave this type of negativity out, and include only positive things. One approach is to image you're a prospective employee looking for a job. Would you include the things wrong with employers, or instruct them on how you think they should respond to applicants?
Save that diatribe for a blog, or even better, this section. Remember, you can't control the behavior of others, only yourself.
Pinstride (46)
4/22/2020 12:06 AMJust checked out your profile and I'm impressed - fine looking fella with a fit, strong body - what's not to like? I'd be happy to set up a wrestle with you one day if we're ever in the same country! Sometimes schedules can't be helped so hang in there and keep trying fella!
glovelover (3)
4/23/2020 9:00 PMKeep your profile and fine tune it. We are in the same boat, but I keep on hoping for more! CIAO!
Rasslebarefoot (14 )
4/23/2020 10:04 PMOlderdesire says he is first on the list to wrestle you, but he is actually second. I am first. Don't be discouraged, stay the course and keep in touch with those guys that like you. Chat, flirt, talk it up because we will soon be out from under this and will be free to travel and meet! Stay strong man!
olderdesire (14)
4/24/2020 2:05 AM(In reply to this)
Fight to see who goes first? I’m in!
Rasslebarefoot (14 )
4/24/2020 2:14 AM(In reply to this)
I’ll rassle you for him!
frenchprowrestler (128)
4/30/2020 4:03 PMI would advise you to put more pics of you in wrestling gear. Maybe it would help !
Pennsypinner (58)
12/30/2021 2:54 AMOlderdesire and Rasslebarefoot....I had my eye on this guy since I joined here in May....I will wrestle the both of you (one at a time please) for the first shot at him. This guy gets me beyond riled... find him to be hot as hell....messaged him often....and I will wrestle this Stud one day (even if I am not the first in line). Yeah, my type of guy and wrestler.....get behind me in line, boys.
Rasslebarefoot (14 )
12/30/2021 3:57 PM(In reply to this)
NICE! Looks like we have a contest!
Pennsypinner (58)
12/30/2021 4:42 PM(In reply to this)
Ready for you, Tough Guy!
Rasslebarefoot (14 )
12/31/2021 2:44 AM(In reply to this)
Bring it on my brother