Profile of bjames65 (37)
Location Show on map
- USA - North Carolina, Clemmons
Place of residence
- USA - Virginia, York County
(I'm here between 6/10/2021 and 6/12/2021)
I am willing to travel 100 miles
I am willing to host. (Bed and Breakfast)
Stats55-year-old Male / 5'10" (178 cm) / 191 lbs (87 kg)
Languages spoken: English
Gear: Singlet, squarecut, speedo
Looking for guys who aren't afraid to work up a good sweat. Can host or travel.
Specific wrestling styles: Wrestling with body punches, Promission, Brit pro wrestling, Arm wrestling
Miscellaneous interests: I'm a heel, I'm a jobber, Stakes
Fetishes: Boxing gear, Wrestling gear, Gut punching, Rip and strip
Last login: yesterday
Last modified: 5/22/2020
Past Opponents305Fighter armrassler atlantawrestles bobster comegetsome DarkGnH DenverWrestler Easttnguy Gsoboxerfan Jester12 JM28601 jrg1199 kyo1989 lance_jeffers Lumberjack MaskedManNC Matty Bearhug Nativesun NCgrappler ncguy28027 NCJockstrap neverenough Random Grappler randywrstl rassling_guy ready_to_rassle riotgear ruffhouse30 salemathlete savageskot SeattleFight SimplyDapper sollync SpladlePin Tiger twisterman Wrestlstev
bjames65 is recommended by Random Grappler
Chatted for a few days before setting up a meet super quick and easy, with some mats at his place
Had a nice long match with BJames; with a number of rounds in various gear through the evening. He’s got a nice sleeper, decent stamina, and is also just a really cool guy to chat with in the downtime, before getting right back to business. Even though I ended up putting the heel to him as time went on, I had an absolute blast, and I could never get too comfortable. I am looking forward to a rematch.
Random Grappler is recommended by bjames65
After chatting with Random_Grappler, he decided to step on my mats to "teach me a lesson". I was determined not to let that happen and I let him know that he would be my jobber in out match.
Well, I now know what crow tastes like and it doesn't taste like chicken. That's because this kid has a good, solid grappling technique and he also has surprising strength for his size. I did get a few submissions, but for the most part I was on defense as he dominated with strength, technique, and flexibility. Every hold I put him in, he managed to escape... And watch out for those legs. I've never been made to tap out due to scissors across my waist, but he made it happen.
So while I do not like the taste of crow, I would definitely meet up with Random_Grappler again. I still haven't learned to embrace my inner jobber. Hopefully this was the first of many matches to come. Did I mention he's pretty easy on the eyes???
(No actual crows were harmed in the creation of this match)
bjames65 is recommended by Matty Bearhug
Had a wonderful time. He was gracious enough to offer wrestling and a place to stay on my 18 hour drive from Florida to Delaware. We had been chatting for years and it was great meeting up finally.
Matty Bearhug is recommended by bjames65
06/20/2020 - After lots of back and forth smack talk, I finally convinced Matty into taking a little detour during his trip from Delaware to Florida so that we could meet for a match of his choice. He wanted a pro-style "I QUIT" match so I agreed. He 's great at selling the holds and looks fantastic in his gear. He truly knows what he's doing though at one point he pinned me and forgot that it was an I QUIT match... Regardless, he got the better of me this time, but we have already started planning the rematch. Can't wait to see what he comes up with for the next battle. I vow that the outcome will be different!
He's a top notch guy and gets my highest recommendation... 10 of 10.
bjames65 is recommended by mustangcowboy
What can I say about this guy except he is a great wrestler who really knows his holds. He drove all the way to meet me at a hotel and we had a blast trading intense holds. We split the match and neither of us could get the majority of wins on each other. It was a tied match and there will be a rematch later this year to see who the true alpha male is between us. Outside the mats, he is a great guy with a genuine heart. If you ever get to wrestle this guy, don't miss the opportunity.
mustangcowboy is recommended by bjames65
After years of chatting, I finally found myself in a position to take on Mustangcowboy! It was finally time to face the master of the figure 4. He showed up on time, ready to do battle. The match was very even with each of us earning 3 submissions in our best of 7 challenge. It all came down to one final fall. The bout was back and forth, each of us taunting the other, but not earning a submission. He applied his signature figure four leg lock but I managed to reverse it and escape. That final round went on for 30 minutes with each of us trying our best to force the other man to submit to our will. Finally, drenched in sweat, we agreed to call it a draw.
But rest assured, the battle may have ended, but we will once again go to war. The rematch will establish which of us is the true alpha male!
In the meantime, I suggest you get yourself a match with this cowboy. He is a great young man and a most worthy opponent. However, I plan to finish him the next time we do battle!
bjames65 is recommended by SpladlePin
Spontaneous Battle @ Bjames place. —-
Bj is strong, Skilled and knows what he’s doing. —-
Both men got multiple taps in with some good solid grappling—
Got to learn some new moves!!
We put on the mma gloves for a round on ab punches. —- I definitely enjoyed the match n recommend Bj as an opponent—
He’s a great host and a fun guy to be around. —
— more matches to come. —
SpladlePin is recommended by bjames65
After months of back and forth banter, Spladle stopped by my place on his way to Durham for a quick, "easy" bout. Online he comes across as a cocky, foul-mouthed SOB and I really wanted to kick his ass, but we agreed to take things easy due to his pending plans.
He was aggressive, strong, and has more skill than he admits. I was able to show him a few new moves and he picked up on those very quickly. I also discovered that his online persona is just a ruse! He is in fact a very kind, sweetheart of a guy. But he is cocky... but since he's able to back it up, is that really cockiness?
Anyway, he is one tough SOB and I will gladly hit the mats with him anytime, anywhere! Hope that we can don headgear and gloves to do some boxing! Don't pass up a chance to fight this guy. He should be on any true fighter's bucket list. A+ recommendation
bjames65 is recommended by SimplyDapper
Gracious host and a fine gentleman! Met with Bjames for an evening of wrestling and had a great time! On the mats, he is strong and tenacious; he does not give up easily! Off the mats, he is a great conversationalist and makes for good company! He made sure I was comfortable throughout my visit! I would definitely recommend meeting Bjames if you get the chance and I am looking forward to our rematch!
SimplyDapper is recommended by bjames65
WOW! SimplyDapper is awesome on the mats! Even though he is "fun sized", beware his killer legs! Though I had read of his exceptional strength, I wasn't sufficiently prepared.I have a significant size advantage but I still think I tapped more than he did. I'm glad he is up for a rematch, because next time I don't plan to take it so easy on him.
Off the mats he is a very caring and intelligent stud! Did I mention that "dapper" is an understatement? His body is perfectly proportioned. I wish he lived close by because we would do battle regularly! He is definitely one helluva nice guy and a formidable grappler. If you get the chance to meet him on the mats, I suggest you take it. You won't be sorry!
Prompt, strong, and enthusiastic... that's what I remember about our match from a few years ago. I got lucky that he fell into my old man traps. He's definitely a handful to take on much less control. Always attacking and looking for those submission opportunities....that's bjames. Great guy, looking forward to our next matches.
7/28/19 Round 2
Always fun to get sweaty with this Stud. Grrrrrrr! Definite improvement from our last match. Lots of good work and a quick study too. I regret showing him a few control moves LOL. I may have taken the grappling rounds but then he wanted to glove up. Wow... I was getting popped from everywhere. The only way I could stop the barrage was to close the distance. He can take some punches too. Woof! Great guy, Good Man, and Tough grappler....Can't wait to go again. Meet and battle it out!
Met up with JM at his place for a cash stakes match. Had a great time even though I left with less money than I started with. He is a lot of fun and has a ton of skill. Great mats and gloves too! I highly recommend wrestling him, but don't do like me and underestimate his skill.
Had a second match with JM, this time on my home mats. He still dominated me, but he's also a good teacher. Now maybe I'll have some new tricks to try on my next opponent. He's still a great guy and a real sweetheart. Highest recommendation!
I had so much fun wrestling with this fine man here. He had a way of making me comfortable before our match which I really appreciate. Wrestling wise, he is a skilled opponent. It was so much fun, Id say we both got some good pins and tap outs. He is a really great guy. Looks hot in a singlet. I can’t wait to do it again.
Highly recommend wrestling him given the chance!
After chatting with Nativesun for a few weeks, we finally decided to meet and wrestle. I am so glad that I took this opportunity because he is a fine young man. He is strong, good looking, and a talented wrestler. Once he gets a few more matches under his belt, he will be a true force to recon with. I'm so glad I finally took the opportunity to wrestle with him. I definitely had fun, and I think he enjoyed it too. I give him my highest recommendation. If you get a chance to wrestle him, take it!
bjames65 is recommended by NCJockstrap
We have been going back-and-forth chatting for many, many years! Finally we got to meet like real men on a real Mat and Wrestle!! He and I also exchanged some good fists to the gut and pecs! BJames is a tough opponent and puts up a good fight! He's strong, determined, and more skilled than he lets on. Off the mat, he truly is a great guy and I think a good friend. If you have the chance to wrestle this stud, I would give him the highest recommendation.
NCJockstrap is recommended by bjames65
After years of back and forth banter, I finally got the chance to get my hands on NCJockstrap. Needless to say, I had my hands full. He's one tough stud who can back up his smack talk! He's rough, strong, and skilled. He seemed to enjoy punching my gut, which is something I also enjoyed. He's also a nice guy (despite what he wants you to think). Hopefully, there will be many more rough matches in the future.
Had a fun time with bjames65 who is strong as an ox. Only problem was that the match wasn't nearly long enough. Here's hoping the rematch lasts longer and goes more my way. A pleasure to spend time with on the mat and to hang with after.
12/21/2018 -Third meeting with Solly and this time he bested me 6-4. He continues to improve and grow stronger. Still, I would wrestle him again in a heartbeat. This time we even put on the boxing gloves and exchanged a few punches. I think he enjoyed this as much as I did! Next time, I won't go so easy on him!
01/20/2018 - Just had the first re-match with Solly! We wrestled for 3+ hours in a match that was much more competitive than the first. Solly is much more muscled than the first time and he's definitely picked up some new tricks! He's still a great guy that I am proud to call my friend.I would wrestle him every week if I could. Hopefully many more rematches will be in the works!
04/29/2017 - Sollync is a fierce opponent. Strong and handsome, a fine wrestler in every sense. Even better, he's one of the nice guys... the kind you can take home to meet the family. I give him my highest recommendation. I look forward to many matches together in the future!
Carolina Man is recommended by bjames65
Round 2 - 10/11/18 - Still a fun guy to wrestle. He's gotten stronger since our last meet and really looks great in a singlet! Did submission first where we tied 1-1 then some pro... He likes to job!
Fun guy to wrestle. He can take a lot of punishment!
bjames65 is recommended by SeattleFight
This guy made the effort to come meet me where I was visiting because we had tried to meet up before but hadn't quite connected. We definitely did this time. I didn't have long so we didn't waste any time. So fun locking up with BJ - same height so the bearhugs were perfect. He's a really very nice and good guy (you can tell that in the first five seconds) with enough of a devilish glint in his eye. He decided to taunt me so I worked him over a bit more. Such a fun guy and match. I highly recommend meeting up with BJames. I enjoyed it and know you will!
SeattleFight is recommended by bjames65
After reading the recommendations on his profile, I felt like I was going to be outgunned going into our match, and I was right. SeattleFight is a tough guy and he let me know he was in charge right from the beginning. Well, at least that's the way HE thinks it happened. He still hits like a girl!
Overall, it was a fun battle, and even though I came out on the losing end when it comes to submission count, I still feel like a winner for having faced the challenge. I would do it again anytime! Who knows, the outcome may be different next time! If you get to fight him, go for it!
After chatting with Jester for several weeks, I finally talked him into taking a trip to Winston-Salem to hit the mats. When he stepped out of his car, my jaw dropped at the sight of this handsome young stud. Big biceps and broad shoulders are my weakness and he has both.
As he removed his shirt revealing his chiseled pecs and neatly trimmed chest hair, I was once again in awe. The guy looks fantastic, but I mused " Is it all gym muscle or can the man wrestle?"
Well, the answer to that is HELL YES! The man knows his way around the mats and thoroughly embarrassed me in the wrestling arena. But he was so much fun to wrestle. While I have no formal training, my years of wrestling have taught me many moves, but no matter what I threw at him, he was always able to counter.
While a real competitor on the mats, he is a really nice, intelligent guy. I'm hoping I will have the opportunity to wrestle him again as it was such a pleasure both on and off the mats. If you have an opportunity to wrestle the Jester, YOU would be the fool to pass on the opportunity!
Very laid back and easy to both get along with and work with. Was a fun meeting. Met him on a work trip, many times I wished I had the chance to pass through the area to meet him again.
Strong reliable and fun guy to wrestle. Has some powerful holds and extremely strong. Easy going and friendly. would take him on again.
02/04/2018 - Had a 2nd meeting with Tiger today. He's still a great guy to wrestle. This time he even took the time to show me a few boxing basics, so that if I find someone to glove up with, I should be able to prevent it from being a total ass beating.
06/07/2016 - Met up with Tiger for a match today an I'm sure glad I did! He is a skilled opponent and an great guy! He's respectful of his opponents and abides by any limits or restrictions set forth. A truly first class guy who receives my highest recommendation!
DCabspunch is recommended by bjames65
Met up with DCabspunch and all I can say is WOW! Not only can he throw a punch, he can also take a punishment that would make a lesser man crumble. He is a great guy, fun wrestler, an I am honored to now call him a friend.
After our match, we went to dinner where he proved to be an excellent conversationalist, both intelligent and classy. Anyone would be a fool to pass up an opportunity to spend time with my new friend! Take him on or you will have to answer to me!
bjames65 is recommended by MaskedManNC
Bobby and I have grappled several times now, he is a skilled and aggressive opponent. Lots of give and take holds and overall great workout on mats. Have the weight advantage over him, otherwise I'd be serious trouble. He has bested me on several occasions and recommend him highly to other grapplers. Good friend off mat too, great host and great conversationist. Want a great match, call Bobby!
MaskedManNC is recommended by bjames65
I have wrestled this masked man several times. It is always a back an forth battle with various levels of intensity. I have to admit that in this latest match, he got the best of me! But one day I vow to remove his mask and learn his true identity!
Who is that masked man?
Fun in disguise!
bjames65 is recommended by comegetsome
Bjames65 is a good wrestler and a great guy. It's worth going out of your way to have a match with him.
savageskot is recommended by bjames65
I have wanted to wrestle Savageskot for a very long time and the meeting was well worth the wait! SS is a great jobber and one helluva a handsome man! While he was the jobber in our match, I think he could have easily turned the tables on me and I would have been in real trouble. The guy is BUILT!
He is also an excellent jobber and once you find his weakness (yes, he does have one), he goes out like a light. In the meantime, he can take a lot of punishment and keeps coming back for more. I don't think he even broke a sweat while I was wringing wet...
He is also a very intelligent and sociable guy. I am just grateful I got the chance to finally meet this sexy stud!
Update - In our rematch, SS was a little more aggressive which I actually like. But just like Achilles, I found his weakness! Great match and I look forward to our next meeting!
bjames65 is recommended by atlantawrestles
bjames and I have met a couple of times when I have visited NC. I wish he lived in Atlanta, so we could wrestle more often! In fact, I look forward to going to NC, so he and I can pin each other. He's big and strong and great fun to wrestle...the perfect match. If you want a safe and sane sweaty struggle, he's your guy.
atlantawrestles is recommended by bjames65
I have met Atlantawrestles a couple of times as he was visiting my town for conferences. He's a nice guy, very strong, and lots of fun to wrestle. He's lean and fit. The muscle is solid! Wish I could say I manhandled him, but it was really the other way around. I managed to get him to tap a couple of times, but overall, he dominated. Just wait until next year! Payback will be hell!
bjames65 is recommended by DenverWrestler
Bobby was far too kind in his recommendation for me. I had to work hard to get every one of my submissions, and he's better at pro than me and paid me back quite thoroughly with a number of mean pro submission holds. He's a great guy to know and wrestle, and I think his furry beefy body is very hot. It was very easy to arrange a match with him, and he's a genuine nice guy whom I hope to have as a long-term friend.
DenverWrestler is recommended by bjames65
Met up with this powerhouse today. Yes, I was totally owned by him on the wrestling mats, but I did find his Achilles heel. Let's just say that my beating would have been far worse if not for that. The man is a beast, though a very handsome beast. But more than that, he is a really nice guy and I appreciate him working me into his wrestling tour as a last minute addition. I definitely enjoyed the workout, and I think he did too!
He owned me in submission as all I could do was "try" to defend. He did let me put him in a few pro moves which was a nice bit of payback! A 10+ on the recommendation!
Riotgear is a stick of dynamite! The kid packs a powerful punch and can take an inordinate amount of punishment. I'm sure I will be sore for days after our meeting. He far surpassed my expectations based on the fact that I had a 60lb weight advantage. This allowed me to toss him around a bit, but he kept coming back for more. He is a self proclaimed pain pig and I was happy to push his limits, though I don't think I really found them. My highest recommendation to this handsome, intelligent fighter!
armrassler is recommended by bjames65
After years of talking, I finally got the opportunity to wrestle Armrassler in Greensboro, NC. I had a height and weight advantage on him, but he is one tough fighter and easily countered everything I could throw at him. After wrestling, we went out to dinner and I discovered not only is he an awesome wrestler, he is an awesome guy! The world needs more guys like him!
bjames65 is recommended by Lumberjack
Good guy and a lot of fun. Highly recommend!
bjames65 is recommended by 305Fighter
Great guy and awesome wrestler. Handsome guy with skill and strength to back it all up. If you are ever in the Winston Salem area you are missing out if you don't set up a match with hIm!
bjames65 is recommended by twisterman
Had a blast with this guy, hope to meet again!
bjames65 is recommended by salemathlete
Normally don't take on bigger guys, but took a chance and glad I did. Great guy on and off the mats. Worked up a good sweat. Look forward to the next match and pulling out the mma gloves.
salemathlete is recommended by bjames65
Don't underestimate this stud. When it's time to wrestle he's a total handful. I had a 25lb+ weight advantage, but that didn't seem to be a problem. Off the mats, he's a really nice guy. On the mats, a total stud. If you get the chance to meet him, go for it. But be prepared for a fight!
I want to recommend Bob for any one who enjoys wrestling. If you want wrestle a man with no hidden agenda and a fantastic attitude THIS IS YOUR MAN. Take all opportunities you can to meet and wrestle him.