Profile of bjames65 (36)

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Looking for guys who aren't afraid to work up a good sweat. Can host or travel.



  1. USA - North Carolina, Clemmons
    Place of residence
  2. USA - Tennessee, Pigeon Forge
    (I'm here between 11/14/2018 and 11/16/2018)
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I am willing to travel 100 miles
I am willing to host. (Bed and Breakfast)


Age: 54-year-old Male

Stats: 5'10" (178 cm), 181 lbs (82 kg)

Languages spoken: English

Gear: Singlet, squarecut, speedo

Submission Submission
Pro wrestling Pro wrestling
Boxing Boxing

Last login: 1 hours ago 

Last modified: 25 days ago

Start of membership: 7/16/2011 5:27 PM



Connor is recommended by bjames65

After several years of chatting on other sites, I finally got to meet Killer Connor! First off, I have to say that his pictures on here do not do him justice. He is a very attractive man and he was lots of fun on the mats. He soaked up what little knowledge I had to share while a nice towel soaked up the sweat created by my tussle with this masculine man! Once he gets a few matches under his belt, he will be a formidable opponent. He gets my highest recommendation and he is definitely an 11 on the fun meter!



bjames65 is recommended by JM28601

Prompt, strong, and enthusiastic... that's what I remember about our match from a few years ago. I got lucky that he fell into my old man traps. He's definitely a handful to take on much less control. Always attacking and looking for those submission opportunities....that's bjames. Great guy, looking forward to our next matches.

7/28/19 Round 2
Always fun to get sweaty with this Stud. Grrrrrrr! Definite improvement from our last match. Lots of good work and a quick study too. I regret showing him a few control moves LOL. I may have taken the grappling rounds but then he wanted to glove up. Wow... I was getting popped from everywhere. The only way I could stop the barrage was to close the distance. He can take some punches too. Woof! Great guy, Good Man, and Tough grappler....Can't wait to go again. Meet and battle it out!



JM28601 is recommended by bjames65

Met up with JM at his place for a cash stakes match. Had a great time even though I left with less money than I started with. He is a lot of fun and has a ton of skill. Great mats and gloves too! I highly recommend wrestling him, but don't do like me and underestimate his skill.

Had a second match with JM, this time on my home mats. He still dominated me, but he's also a good teacher. Now maybe I'll have some new tricks to try on my next opponent. He's still a great guy and a real sweetheart. Highest recommendation!



bjames65 is recommended by Nativesun

I had so much fun wrestling with this fine man here. He had a way of making me comfortable before our match which I really appreciate. Wrestling wise, he is a skilled opponent. It was so much fun, Id say we both got some good pins and tap outs. He is a really great guy. Looks hot in a singlet. I can’t wait to do it again.
Highly recommend wrestling him given the chance!



Nativesun is recommended by bjames65

After chatting with Nativesun for a few weeks, we finally decided to meet and wrestle. I am so glad that I took this opportunity because he is a fine young man. He is strong, good looking, and a talented wrestler. Once he gets a few more matches under his belt, he will be a true force to recon with. I'm so glad I finally took the opportunity to wrestle with him. I definitely had fun, and I think he enjoyed it too. I give him my highest recommendation. If you get a chance to wrestle him, take it!



bjames65 is recommended by NCJockstrap

We have been going back-and-forth chatting for many, many years! Finally we got to meet like real men on a real Mat and Wrestle!! He and I also exchanged some good fists to the gut and pecs! BJames is a tough opponent and puts up a good fight! He's strong, determined, and more skilled than he lets on. Off the mat, he truly is a great guy and I think a good friend. If you have the chance to wrestle this stud, I would give him the highest recommendation.



NCJockstrap is recommended by bjames65

After years of back and forth banter, I finally got the chance to get my hands on NCJockstrap. Needless to say, I had my hands full. He's one tough stud who can back up his smack talk! He's rough, strong, and skilled. He seemed to enjoy punching my gut, which is something I also enjoyed. He's also a nice guy (despite what he wants you to think). Hopefully, there will be many more rough matches in the future.



bjames65 is recommended by sollync

Had a fun time with bjames65 who is strong as an ox. Only problem was that the match wasn't nearly long enough. Here's hoping the rematch lasts longer and goes more my way. A pleasure to spend time with on the mat and to hang with after.



sollync is recommended by bjames65

12/21/2018 -Third meeting with Solly and this time he bested me 6-4. He continues to improve and grow stronger. Still, I would wrestle him again in a heartbeat. This time we even put on the boxing gloves and exchanged a few punches. I think he enjoyed this as much as I did! Next time, I won't go so easy on him!

01/20/2018 - Just had the first re-match with Solly! We wrestled for 3+ hours in a match that was much more competitive than the first. Solly is much more muscled than the first time and he's definitely picked up some new tricks! He's still a great guy that I am proud to call my friend.I would wrestle him every week if I could. Hopefully many more rematches will be in the works!

04/29/2017 - Sollync is a fierce opponent. Strong and handsome, a fine wrestler in every sense. Even better, he's one of the nice guys... the kind you can take home to meet the family. I give him my highest recommendation. I look forward to many matches together in the future!



bjames65 is recommended by JasonRay

The “Head Lock King”. He can put you in one, but you cannot him. Had a fun, sweaty good time! He is great for those looking for first match. He was mine.
Who is next? LOL!
P.S. except for those headlocks, I was victor.



JasonRay is recommended by bjames65

WOW! Met up with Jason Ray for a match today. The first thing I have to say is that his pictures don't do him justice. He is much more muscular and handsome than his pics would suggest. (I was expecting a geeky kid, but no, he is all man!) Our match was short but competitive. We were both sweaty by the end (me more so than him). He is powerful but kept his strength under control so that nobody got hurt and we both had fun.I came out on top today, (he will no doubt dispute this) but after he gets a few more matches under his belt, he will definitely be a force to recon with. I look forward to many more matches in the future.

No Jason... you were tapping like Fred Astaire! I was the victor!~



meturmatchoh is recommended by bjames65

Met up with Meturmatchoh in Pigeon Forge. He is an absolutely awesome guy to hang out with. While our match was brief due to limited space, I would highly recommend him to anyone looking to have some fun on the mats!



Carolina Man is recommended by bjames65

Round 2 - 10/11/18 - Still a fun guy to wrestle. He's gotten stronger since our last meet and really looks great in a singlet! Did submission first where we tied 1-1 then some pro... He likes to job!

Fun guy to wrestle. He can take a lot of punishment!



bjames65 is recommended by SeattleFight

This guy made the effort to come meet me where I was visiting because we had tried to meet up before but hadn't quite connected. We definitely did this time. I didn't have long so we didn't waste any time. So fun locking up with BJ - same height so the bearhugs were perfect. He's a really very nice and good guy (you can tell that in the first five seconds) with enough of a devilish glint in his eye. He decided to taunt me so I worked him over a bit more. Such a fun guy and match. I highly recommend meeting up with BJames. I enjoyed it and know you will!



SeattleFight is recommended by bjames65

After reading the recommendations on his profile, I felt like I was going to be outgunned going into our match, and I was right. SeattleFight is a tough guy and he let me know he was in charge right from the beginning. Well, at least that's the way HE thinks it happened. He still hits like a girl!

Overall, it was a fun battle, and even though I came out on the losing end when it comes to submission count, I still feel like a winner for having faced the challenge. I would do it again anytime! Who knows, the outcome may be different next time! If you get to fight him, go for it!



Jester12 is recommended by bjames65

After chatting with Jester for several weeks, I finally talked him into taking a trip to Winston-Salem to hit the mats. When he stepped out of his car, my jaw dropped at the sight of this handsome young stud. Big biceps and broad shoulders are my weakness and he has both.

As he removed his shirt revealing his chiseled pecs and neatly trimmed chest hair, I was once again in awe. The guy looks fantastic, but I mused " Is it all gym muscle or can the man wrestle?"

Well, the answer to that is HELL YES! The man knows his way around the mats and thoroughly embarrassed me in the wrestling arena. But he was so much fun to wrestle. While I have no formal training, my years of wrestling have taught me many moves, but no matter what I threw at him, he was always able to counter.

While a real competitor on the mats, he is a really nice, intelligent guy. I'm hoping I will have the opportunity to wrestle him again as it was such a pleasure both on and off the mats. If you have an opportunity to wrestle the Jester, YOU would be the fool to pass on the opportunity!



bjames65 is recommended by jrg1199

Very laid back and easy to both get along with and work with. Was a fun meeting. Met him on a work trip, many times I wished I had the chance to pass through the area to meet him again.



jrg1199 is recommended by bjames65

Met this stud several years ago when he was in town on business. Had an excellent pro match. He's an excellent jobber who introduced me to my inner heel! Overall great guy!! Don't pass up a chance to wrestle him!



bjames65 is recommended by Tiger

Strong reliable and fun guy to wrestle. Has some powerful holds and extremely strong. Easy going and friendly. would take him on again.



Tiger is recommended by bjames65

02/04/2018 - Had a 2nd meeting with Tiger today. He's still a great guy to wrestle. This time he even took the time to show me a few boxing basics, so that if I find someone to glove up with, I should be able to prevent it from being a total ass beating.

06/07/2016 - Met up with Tiger for a match today an I'm sure glad I did! He is a skilled opponent and an great guy! He's respectful of his opponents and abides by any limits or restrictions set forth. A truly first class guy who receives my highest recommendation!



DCabspunch is recommended by bjames65

Met up with DCabspunch and all I can say is WOW! Not only can he throw a punch, he can also take a punishment that would make a lesser man crumble. He is a great guy, fun wrestler, an I am honored to now call him a friend.

After our match, we went to dinner where he proved to be an excellent conversationalist, both intelligent and classy. Anyone would be a fool to pass up an opportunity to spend time with my new friend! Take him on or you will have to answer to me!



bjames65 is recommended by MaskedManNC

Bobby and I have grappled several times now, he is a skilled and aggressive opponent. Lots of give and take holds and overall great workout on mats. Have the weight advantage over him, otherwise I'd be serious trouble. He has bested me on several occasions and recommend him highly to other grapplers. Good friend off mat too, great host and great conversationist. Want a great match, call Bobby!



MaskedManNC is recommended by bjames65

I have wrestled this masked man several times. It is always a back an forth battle with various levels of intensity. I have to admit that in this latest match, he got the best of me! But one day I vow to remove his mask and learn his true identity!

Who is that masked man?

Fun in disguise!



bjames65 is recommended by comegetsome

Bjames65 is a good wrestler and a great guy. It's worth going out of your way to have a match with him.



comegetsome is recommended by bjames65

Second meeting even better than the first. This stud is a brute when wrestling, but I like that!

Met this stud for a match back in February. Come prepared to wrestle! He is the real deal! He's also a great guy off the mats!



savageskot is recommended by bjames65

I have wanted to wrestle Savageskot for a very long time and the meeting was well worth the wait! SS is a great jobber and one helluva a handsome man! While he was the jobber in our match, I think he could have easily turned the tables on me and I would have been in real trouble. The guy is BUILT!

He is also an excellent jobber and once you find his weakness (yes, he does have one), he goes out like a light. In the meantime, he can take a lot of punishment and keeps coming back for more. I don't think he even broke a sweat while I was wringing wet...

He is also a very intelligent and sociable guy. I am just grateful I got the chance to finally meet this sexy stud!

Update - In our rematch, SS was a little more aggressive which I actually like. But just like Achilles, I found his weakness! Great match and I look forward to our next meeting!



bjames65 is recommended by atlantawrestles

bjames and I have met a couple of times when I have visited NC. I wish he lived in Atlanta, so we could wrestle more often! In fact, I look forward to going to NC, so he and I can pin each other. He's big and strong and great fun to wrestle...the perfect match. If you want a safe and sane sweaty struggle, he's your guy.



atlantawrestles is recommended by bjames65

I have met Atlantawrestles a couple of times as he was visiting my town for conferences. He's a nice guy, very strong, and lots of fun to wrestle. He's lean and fit. The muscle is solid! Wish I could say I manhandled him, but it was really the other way around. I managed to get him to tap a couple of times, but overall, he dominated. Just wait until next year! Payback will be hell!



bjames65 is recommended by DenverWrestler

Bobby was far too kind in his recommendation for me. I had to work hard to get every one of my submissions, and he's better at pro than me and paid me back quite thoroughly with a number of mean pro submission holds. He's a great guy to know and wrestle, and I think his furry beefy body is very hot. It was very easy to arrange a match with him, and he's a genuine nice guy whom I hope to have as a long-term friend.



DenverWrestler is recommended by bjames65

Met up with this powerhouse today. Yes, I was totally owned by him on the wrestling mats, but I did find his Achilles heel. Let's just say that my beating would have been far worse if not for that. The man is a beast, though a very handsome beast. But more than that, he is a really nice guy and I appreciate him working me into his wrestling tour as a last minute addition. I definitely enjoyed the workout, and I think he did too!

He owned me in submission as all I could do was "try" to defend. He did let me put him in a few pro moves which was a nice bit of payback! A 10+ on the recommendation!



riotgear is recommended by bjames65

Riotgear is a stick of dynamite! The kid packs a powerful punch and can take an inordinate amount of punishment. I'm sure I will be sore for days after our meeting. He far surpassed my expectations based on the fact that I had a 60lb weight advantage. This allowed me to toss him around a bit, but he kept coming back for more. He is a self proclaimed pain pig and I was happy to push his limits, though I don't think I really found them. My highest recommendation to this handsome, intelligent fighter!



asausc63 is recommended by bjames65

Have wrestled Asa a couple of times and it has been a fun match each time. Definitely due for a re-match, so be ready!



Keith DC is recommended by bjames65

I've wrestled Keith a couple of times before he moved to DC. He's load of fun to wrestle and a super nice guy!



armrassler is recommended by bjames65

After years of talking, I finally got the opportunity to wrestle Armrassler in Greensboro, NC. I had a height and weight advantage on him, but he is one tough fighter and easily countered everything I could throw at him. After wrestling, we went out to dinner and I discovered not only is he an awesome wrestler, he is an awesome guy! The world needs more guys like him!



bjames65 is recommended by Lumberjack

Good guy and a lot of fun. Highly recommend!



Lumberjack is recommended by bjames65

Though it has been many years since we wrestled, LehighPA has always been one of my favorite opponents. Wrestle him if you get the chance! You won't be disappointed.



bjames65 is recommended by 305Fighter

Great guy and awesome wrestler. Handsome guy with skill and strength to back it all up. If you are ever in the Winston Salem area you are missing out if you don't set up a match with hIm!



305Fighter is recommended by bjames65

Had a chance to wrestle 305 when he visited the area for work. I was surprised at the strength of this young stud. He's a good fighter but an even better guy. If you get a chance to wrestle him, go for it! You won't be disappointed!



ruffhouse30 is recommended by bjames65

I met Ruffhouse 30 on a recent trip to VA. He's a nice young man an a gracious host. Two thumbs up! If you get a chance to wrestle him, you won't be disappointed.



bjames65 is recommended by twisterman

Had a blast with this guy, hope to meet again!



twisterman is recommended by bjames65

Had a great match with this young hunk! Great guy on and off the mats. Hope to wrestle again very soon!



bjames65 is recommended by salemathlete

Normally don't take on bigger guys, but took a chance and glad I did. Great guy on and off the mats. Worked up a good sweat. Look forward to the next match and pulling out the mma gloves.



salemathlete is recommended by bjames65

Don't underestimate this stud. When it's time to wrestle he's a total handful. I had a 25lb+ weight advantage, but that didn't seem to be a problem. Off the mats, he's a really nice guy. On the mats, a total stud. If you get the chance to meet him, go for it. But be prepared for a fight!



NCgrappler is recommended by bjames65

It's been a while since we wrestled, but BJJgrappler is a nice guy off the mats, but all business when on! If you get a chance to lock up with him, it's well worth the time!



bjames65 is recommended by bobster

I want to recommend Bob for any one who enjoys wrestling. If you want wrestle a man with no hidden agenda and a fantastic attitude THIS IS YOUR MAN. Take all opportunities you can to meet and wrestle him.



bobster is recommended by bjames65

Bob and I have wrestled many times! He's a great guy and a great host. Always enjoy the meets at his house!



bjames65 is recommended by USA Jeff

Great guy - strong, fun to wrestle, and a great sense of humor. I can't recommend him highly enough. Wish he lived closer to me so I could see him more often.



USA Jeff is recommended by bjames65

Jeff is a fun guy to wrestle. I would wrestle him every day if I could.



bjames65 is recommended by DarkGnH

Great opponent, lots of heart and fun, great guy over all.



DarkGnH is recommended by bjames65

Strong as a bull and more fun than a barrel of monkeys! Great match with this guy!


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bjames65 12/22/2018

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