Before the wrap-up of my trip to the U.S. a sequel to my previous blog on the big vs. small theme. Prior to my arrival here accross the big pond I got a message from a small guy, and with his permission I quote some parts of it here to describe his vision on the big vs small match up.
"I see that you're cumming here in a few days and that are into big vs. small, but there's small (especially to a guy your size) and then there's a guy of my size. Pointless to engage in fake "trash talk" or imply that I might give you any kind of competitive match but if you'd like to play or toy or, yeah, Hunk, totally dominate a guy of my size I have no problem with that. Not a wuss or a pussyboy but totally into the size and strength differential. And, per your latest blog, I would make you "work for it", climb on your broad back, claw your big balls and squeeze your nips. Maybe even with the 12" height differential I could raise my knee to another part of your big bod!"
Now that is a start for a tough battle. I must say I am not a big fan of talking about wrestling if there is a fair chance of having an actual meeting with someone else. But this guy was different. He was there to schedule a match. Not one of those who are dreaming about meeting a big guy, having that match in their head only, not to mention having it in the privacy of their own home. I reckon that is how you might call it.. Well let's see what comes next!
"Mucho thanks for the reply. A "challenge" seems pointless and futile but do you know the American expression "the bigger they are the harder they fall"? Since I'm built so low to the ground maybe I could duck under these massive legs of yours, grab your ankles from behind, knock you to the floor and stomp on your broad back with my ginormous size five foot. Spread your big legs and put my size 5's on your tree trunks. Place my weight on your back and camel you. Bearhug you, scissor you with my huge 22" quads, maybe even gorilla press you!"
Oh yes, it all goes back to the "the bigger they are, the harder they fall". This guy knows his holds and moves. But he is realistic. That size five foot has to do quite alot of stomping to keep the big guy down. Spreading those big legs and standing on top of them? That could do some damage. A Camel clutch? It might be a breakthrough move. Enough said? No, he has yet some more in his mind.
"When I've weakened you to the point that you're begging for mercy from the little guy I'll take out all the anger I have for me being so weak, puny, frail, brittle boned on you for being so f'n built and incredibly strong!"
Now here it just might happen, the reverse I mean. Instead of having the big guy begging for mercy, the small guy could very well be set up in an over the shoulders rack hold. He sure would get an over the knee back breaker. Just name a hold and eventually he would be flattened on the canvas and squeezed hard. No nipple twist or pec claw would save him from the head and body scissors. And that's all, folks!
This time the match did not take place. Why? You know very well the reason! People who schedule a match and then cancel it at the last minute always take place of someone else. And that someone else is a guy who actually would have made it and not only talked about it. And this small guy would sure have deserved to get his chance against the Big Guy!
So here is my second blog... i did not get any react on the forst so it seems its not very intresting for others. i do go on because i like to write about my feelings in this wrestling thing hehe
I had one opportunity this easter weekend for wrestling..but it failed becaause of mismatch in timing. I did not had much time this busy easter and my opponent was here with some non wrestling friends so had not much time either. Pity because he seems a nice guy to wreslte. Lets try to find a guy today with some active presence on meetfighters again today ;) Horny enough for a nice fight!
Amazed how many new Manc guys are on here and none of them want to meet! Been on Meetfighters and never had a meet, says it all really - saps!
Does anyone want to help me break in my new boxing gear? Looking for anything from friendly sparring to full-contact boxing. I'm available in the Toronto, Niagara or Southwestern Ontario areas..
I am working on the next version of the site engine. It's going to be great: faster and more versatile than the present one. It will feature a much improved search engine, it will allow multiple attachments in messages, it will make shoes for orphans! (OK, that last one is not true.)
This is a request to "senior" site members, who know the site inside and out, to try the new site and report any bugs that you find. Apply with management here!
On an unrelated note, Happy Easter!
What strikes me about this website is the number of men who choose to hide their face.
I dont get this:
Its 2014, and the majority of users seem to have technical experience, are in good shape and keen to play / do sport, so...why all the headless pics?
Its lacking some balls and individuality and I sure as hell dont want to meet someone who lacks those.
No fun or release in that.
This is coupled with the guys '''who are actually married or partnered and looking
to do more than wrestle.
We all have needs guys, but isnt honesty with your partners better than cowering to ancient social values''', just to enjoy ourselves as men?
Its no secret a lot of guys like to blow off steam with other men in this way.
I think its fucking great, when men are men and get it on:)
But theres no friendship or respect in hiding ones face. Theres no honesty or bravery or modern attitude to life by not telling your partner you occasionally want to wrestle and play sensually with other men.
These are natural needs that we all have, so why not embrace honesty and cut the bullshit like "My Work will find out, My friends will see this."
Talk to your partner. Maybe they want something too?
If no one challenges these issues, then every man after you falls victim to the same shitty ideals. Are you REALLY happy living a double life?
And men nowadays are becoming a downtrodden race.
That stuff is all rubbish so why not talk to your partners, Man Up and show some pride in your lifestyle?
Does play with men in this way need to be a Dirty Secret?
I dont think so - Women have their own needs - And so do Men.
Its time to change these old ideals and encourage men to embrace honesty which adds real satisfaction and Balance to their lives.
Show your face pic - Talk to your partner. Encourage compromise and mutual respect.
Does your partner rule your life? Are you less of a man than you think you are?
Challenge boring outdated convention. Get what you really want, '''without having to Hide, Lie, and compromise whilst feeling guilty all the time.'''
There is No Shame in The Truth. It simply is What It Is - A fact of Nature.
Maybe then we'd see less headless profiles - And more honesty. Not Shame and Fear
Just got back from the store. It was a pretty successful trip!
Tried all the gloves they had and changed my mind on what to get based on seeing them first hand and trying them on. I ended up with these 16oz gloves for sparring because they were just as good as most others for less money:
And these 12oz gloves fit my hands perfectly for more serious matches:
I also got another headgear because these looked good and fit well for full-contact boxing:
It was great to spend the time to try on all this equipment before buying.
To help raising awareness for the grappling sport. I am going to the Gay Games in Cleveland, and it will cost $2,500. Will you help support this effort by pledging money?
I am in Scotland on May 3rd. If you are interested in booking a session North of the border, message me or text me for rates on 07557047667
I'm going to a store that sells fight gear tomorrow and plan to pick up these 16 oz gloves for sparring:
and these AIBA Approved 10 oz competition gloves for boxing matches: