Profile of john el (6)silverIdle

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Hi all,
Update 4/14
Getting back a least a bit into some semblance of match shape - recovering from some tendonitis and back issues.
Work and other things keep me busy, won't be able to chit chat regularly.
Also I CANNOT host.
PLEASE Dont call me "daddy"! It's a major trigger.
And enough with the idiotic "challenge" that has got to be the stupidest "feature". "Hey, like your profile interested in a match?". Is that HARD?
More pointless when you are distant. No I am NOT going to bum fuck mars for a match.

UPDATE - 4/3/18
Sorry I've not been on here, and much of my emails have fallen through the time cracks.
Many things going on in my life has kept me from the mats.
I will be back!

End update

I do seem to be feeling the heeling.. :p enjoying a challenge, but I do like to more be on the winning side.
But I'm good with a slow give and take, and "here lemme try this" type stuff.

I Have some generic grappling experience, new to the “styles” before it was either playful on floor “rassling” or static takedowns.
Also static domination type things, face/chest sitting/pinning. On both sides.

Regarding sex in a match, I consider “erotic” to include “sex”, i.e. someone cums. I consider a sensual match to have sexual tones such as clothed tea bagging, face sitting, crotch grabbing etc.
I am fine with a sensual match, not looking for a sexual or erotic, ‘specially on first meeting/match.

Just let me know what you want upfront, and we can discuss and go from there.

I do come from a BDSM background, I tend to be a primal, empathic player with a sadistic (sometime masochistic) edge, so I may beat you up but I also will hug, you and make sure you are ok.

If “BDSM” scares you, might want to read about it, there is a lot of convergence in grappling/wrestling and other play. If you do the “heel/jobber” thing you are essentially engaging in BDSM.

I am pansexual - gender is not an issue for me.



Match structure: Even match, Give and take, Squash match, Play wrestling, Practicing techniques, Workout partner, Looking for coach
Specific wrestling styles: Wrestling with body punches, Arm wrestling, Going to matches
Miscellaneous interests: Massage, Friendship, Relationship, Modeling
Fetishes: Wrestle for top, Spandex, Naked wrestling, Gut punching, Trampling, Face sitting, Muscle worship


  1. USA - California, Santa Clarita
    Place of residence
  2. USA - California, Pasadena
  3. USA - California, Martinez (I'm here between 9/02/2017 and 9/04/2017)
    LF chill hotel match gf here light sensual ok
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I am willing to travel 15 miles


Age: 54-year-old Bisexual Male, looking for Male or Female

Stats: 6'5" (196 cm), 250 lbs (113 kg)

Gear: shorts, briefs, thong etc I am open

Submission Submission
No holds barred No holds barred
Sumo Sumo
Just watching Just watching

Last login: 4/14/2018 6:41 PM Idle

Last modified: 11 days ago

Start of membership: 6/23/2017 4:31 PM



belgiumman96 is recommended by john el

Shared a hotel for the match. He's there on time and good communication.
We were both a bit shy, but chatted a bit an got to it. Nice guy.
Nice looking clean, well mannered.
It wasn't a competitive match so will not comment on that.
Did took a good facesit, and scissor.

Def would love to explore again, maybe go a bit further.



john el is recommended by jjboi

Had fun with this (mostly) gentle giant. He looks way bigger in person than in his pics which was crazy. A bit of an off day for us both but we had a few good bouts and good conversation and laughs in between. Had a great time even though it was probably one of the lazier matches in the history of wrestling and much of it was talking about tacos.

Great guy who I'd def recommend matching up with. Looking forward to round 2!



jjboi is recommended by john el

Had an enjoyable time talking to jjboi. In between some slow mo wrestling. :) Aha
So we met - he's a very gracious host. But we were both out of sorts, low energy so we were a little lazier then typical.

But we both came out competitive, and had some good match time and he's a lot of fun to wrestle. and very nice to chat and hang with.

Def strong for his weight. Well any weight, nicely built.
Highly recommended and hope to have another go.



john el is recommended by WrestleJ

He's built like a tank! Solid, strong, thick, huge arms, and strong legs. But at the end of the day, he's a gentle giant. He is one of the nicest guys I have met. I did get a pin in on round 1, but after that, he used his size and strength to throw me off of him and break himself from my moves. Watch out for those arms! We had great conversation after the match as well. I can't wait for the next match.



WrestleJ is recommended by john el

In town on business, JJ invited me up for a match.
Charming and gracious host. Clean and nice looking.
As others have said he's a jobber but he doesn't just take it, in fact I started slow and ended up tapping.
Fun to wrestle easy going, we did a little stand up, I felt safe that his situational awareness was good enough that any pushes were directed toward the bed.
Very safety and minded of his opponents well being.
We did a little give and take, as others mentioned strong leg scissor. Didnt get an immediate tap, but kept some long assed pressure I finally could take and tapped.
Highly recommend JobberJ! and I hope to see him next time he is in town!



john el is recommended by want2wrestle

This is one big, strong, good-looking man, who definitely knows how to use his size and power to his advantage. He is competitive, but still manages to make the match a lot of fun - a great combination. If you get the chance, do not miss wrestling this massive, reliable, giant of a man. He is not only a great wrestler, but an all around fantastic guy as well! Highly recommend!



want2wrestle is recommended by john el

Had a very fun match with want2wrestle.

He's welcoming and hospitable, nice to chat with outside of wrestling.
Wrestling wise, he's strong brings his match level up (or down! lol) to your level.
In great shape, strong competitive.

All in all a good match and looking forward to more when he comes into town again!



john el is recommended by NightWolf

Such a big friendly Giant. When I first walk in the room I was thinking I made a mistake with the size difference. But he was just as shy as I was if not shyer but we started with a few holds and after that we began to just wrestle and the shyness we both had just melted. Very nice and accommodating fellow. Be sure to walk out for those arms and his headlocks very strong but safe fellow makes sure to not injure his opponents but puts up a great fight. Highly recommend had a great time buddy.



NightWolf is recommended by john el

As he mentioned, we're both shy, so we had a few moments staring at each other, giggling. Yeah we both giggled like schoolkids, screw you lol..

But it didn't take long, Nightwolf is very easy going, adaptable. Soon we were swapping holds, and having fun. Then into a more competitive set.

Easy going he is, but he's a strong competitive fellow! While I'm new at this, I've had a coupe matches where my size and strength were overpowering. Not him. I could not relax a second, and he had my head locked up painfully.

But again very fun, sometimes silly. (As was I, if you can't laugh at shit, including yourself IMO you're doing life wrong)

Very enjoy to talk with out of the wrestling side as well.
Def would love to match up again should I find myself up that way again.



john el is recommended by jtwrestle

John is a great guy to meet and wrestle. He is strong and in great shape. His pic does not do him justice. Would definitely wrestle again.



jtwrestle is recommended by john el

Very nice man off mats.
On mats.. He's what you want - strong, knowledgeable, patient, safe.
Very powerful legs, and knows how to work scissors! And kinda makes ya not want to come out of them soon!
Knows other upper body, full body hold as well.

Paces a match as well for a nice give and take.

Def would meet and wrestle again, hope you make it out here again soon, JT! :)



john el is recommended by jeffc

Awesome guy. In very good shape. Very strong and muscular. We had a lot of fun and he completely destroyed me. Highly recommended.



jeffc is recommended by john el

Had a good time, very engaging and relaxing.

Nice after match chat too.