So far, I haven't had bad experiences for stakes wrestling. I've met a lot of guys since I took the plunge a few months back. I've wrestled guys who are highly respectful of boundaries and genuinely concerned about making sure the wrestling and the stakes fun is safe, so it's been a great experience for me these last few months discovering my local MF community and beyond.
The only bad experience has been relating to being made to feel like the 'spare wheel' in a 3-person scenario. So I am going to be more careful/weary about those offers moving forward!
I've had many great experiences from guys on here, rarely had a bad experience.
The best ones are all similar, fast, fun, work up a sweat, and enjoy ourselves.
The worst usually involve flakes/no show or almost as bad guys who just want to gear up and dry hump, not wrestle.
Take the plunge and enjoy yourself, most of the guys on here are awesome and patient.
So I'm still trying to work up the courage to 'take the plunge' myself with this; and while it does seem like a great fantasy, I have too many wild thoughts about how bad it could get.
So, what I'd like to ask each of you is this: What has honestly been your best experience with stakes wrestling here (Even if you lost; and even if the stakes weren't most extreme)? And: What has honestly been your worst experience with stakes wrestling here (Please don't hold back; I want honesty as to what could happen, otherwise a worse experience if I tried it could put me off this for good)?
My first and, so far, only real stakes match was for loser got spanked. I realize that's very mild by these standards but it was enough to add an element of risk of embarrassment to the match. I had successfully wrestled this guy for pins a couple of times and expected to defeat him. I was looking forward to the opportunity to dent his ego a little bit with several stinging but not overly hard swats to his posterior. He was black while I am white so there was an added racial component to the match which further elevated the desire to avoid being humbled by the other persons hand. In the end it resulted in a fond memory for me and hopefully for both of us.
kimmetje (148 )
10/18/2017 8:50 AMSo far, I haven't had bad experiences for stakes wrestling. I've met a lot of guys since I took the plunge a few months back. I've wrestled guys who are highly respectful of boundaries and genuinely concerned about making sure the wrestling and the stakes fun is safe, so it's been a great experience for me these last few months discovering my local MF community and beyond.
The only bad experience has been relating to being made to feel like the 'spare wheel' in a 3-person scenario. So I am going to be more careful/weary about those offers moving forward!
Kureitondesu (14 )
10/17/2017 9:45 PMI've had many great experiences from guys on here, rarely had a bad experience.
The best ones are all similar, fast, fun, work up a sweat, and enjoy ourselves.
The worst usually involve flakes/no show or almost as bad guys who just want to gear up and dry hump, not wrestle.
Take the plunge and enjoy yourself, most of the guys on here are awesome and patient.
Damion (0)
9/10/2017 9:04 AMSo I'm still trying to work up the courage to 'take the plunge' myself with this; and while it does seem like a great fantasy, I have too many wild thoughts about how bad it could get.
So, what I'd like to ask each of you is this: What has honestly been your best experience with stakes wrestling here (Even if you lost; and even if the stakes weren't most extreme)? And: What has honestly been your worst experience with stakes wrestling here (Please don't hold back; I want honesty as to what could happen, otherwise a worse experience if I tried it could put me off this for good)?
Thanks in advance.
Just Dan (7)
10/19/2017 3:29 PM(In reply to this)
My first and, so far, only real stakes match was for loser got spanked. I realize that's very mild by these standards but it was enough to add an element of risk of embarrassment to the match. I had successfully wrestled this guy for pins a couple of times and expected to defeat him. I was looking forward to the opportunity to dent his ego a little bit with several stinging but not overly hard swats to his posterior. He was black while I am white so there was an added racial component to the match which further elevated the desire to avoid being humbled by the other persons hand. In the end it resulted in a fond memory for me and hopefully for both of us.