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I feel like that when I read a profile says NO SEX but then says wrestle for top. Some of those same guys offer loser blows winner matches so I concluded that sex to them has to be penetration not oral or jack off. And I'm okay with that.

In my experience, the guy who has "No Sex" and "Wrestle for top" on his profile does not know the meaning of the latter.

my only conclusion. And its out there a LOT.

I guess some guys aren't into labels. Whatever. That's fine with me.

Might depend on your previous experiences. If you’ve jacked off with your mates, then you might not find that to be gay at all.

I'm "Straight".
Even though I get a hard on when I do fun, slow, Pro or Pro- mission wrestling or exchanging gut punches.
But for me, it's all about the SENSUALITY not the SEXUALITY.
I'm a jobber by nature . . . and nipple play and ab caresses both drive me NUTZ with pleasure ! 😁
For me, the physical contact, some pain in holds, and heel/jobber role-playing is amazing fun !

I'm gay. I have no desire to do any of this with a woman.

A homosexual encounter by any other name smells just as sweet. Sorry Will.

This is my favorite response to this question and I agree 100%.

Though like Brown Bomber I always find the No Sex/Wrestle for Top confusing.

However if it was a good enough distinction for a former American President, who are we to disagree.

But after a few years on here, I've come around to the opinion - sometimes people spend more time on the photos and not the actual words of their accounts, people arent always sure what exactly they want from a match ... and if you have any doubts or confusion about what the other guy really wants, - ask.

As for naked wrestling I had never considered that overtly erotiv. There is a weird over sexualised and under sexualised contradiction in reaction to men's bodies.

When women admire other women figures, or men checking out other men's bodies in the gym for example- I wouldn't say that was homosexual but homosocial. Competitive more than carnal.

The same with the jacking off. If they are doing it to themselves just with company, that's a bit different to using someone else's hand to do it.

As for yanking on someone's nipples, I was surprised that was considered erotic. Seemed an easy way to distract an opponent and inflict a little pain - and frankly MMA matches would probably be more improved by it's inclusion

I went to a gay bar the other night that on wednesdays it's a naked session.........Accordingly some guy started sucking me off then wanking me before asking what made me cum to which i said usually if someone fingers my bum..............Sorry, i dont do that I'm not gay he said.....True story :)

LMFAO.
They say about art that : "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder".
Maybe sex should be : "Sexuality is in the hand of the HOLDER" ? 😁

Bhahahahahaha that’s awesome!

🤣🤣🤣I needed the laugh🤣🤣🤣

If u wrestle another dude and u get boned I dont think ur straight

^^^^ is a really stupid take.

Whatever dude

To me, straight just means you like fanny (that's the front hole this side of the pond) but you're not interested in cock. Wrestling by itself isn't a gay activity, I guess that back in the day our forefathers wrestled each other for the hottest women, and probably wrestled naked.
The minute you show any interest in cock, though, you're gay, or at least bi, even if you do want to spell it S-T-R-A-I-G-H-T. Just get out of the closet.
For me, a wrestling bout is a way of bonding, testing your muscles, showing off your body, smelling sweat and getting close, and if it ends up with both of you naked and penetrative sex, bring it on!

There is a lot of homophobia in western societies which are supposed to be more advanced. There is still a lot of guilt admitting being gay. Back in the 80s and 90s due to aids … wrestling as body contact was the safe way to get some steam of…without sex… after 30 years societies instead of going forward … they going backwards…racism is going up …lots of people in here no matter their sexual orientation they are not sexually liberated… you can tell that even from the pictures that are posting…for many here I guess speedos briefs tights are too gay!!!
To my mind lots of people in here like everywhere need professional help… admitting their truth.

I don’t think someones sexual identity is really something you have the right to critique. I don’t see why it’s even worthy of a post.

So much then for freedom of speech!.............It's not what is said it's how it is said.

Not really, as this ‘freedom of speech’ then infringes on someone’s freedom of expression and identity.