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Can we save the loss of any members?

Meet Fighters has a unique array of men and women who enjoy participating in various forms of martial arts. Some do so for exercise; some for testing of themselves in various levels of competition; and, for a variety of other reasons. I believe Administration and its coterie of volunteers do everything possible to facilitate these activities, and more. I mean how many have encountered great stories, some even serialized, and thus enjoyed good reads. Blogs are fostered to allow members to share events in their lives, to describe problems they hope that members will take note and perhaps correct themselves in how they treat other members. We should be content with these provisions done to enhance and lead to contentment of our community. However...

Every so often we lose members. The reasons are often similar, but there are undoubtedly infrequent reasons for the temporary suspension and even permanent withdrawal.

I wonder if there are members who wonder why a former opponent, or even a soon to be opponent, suddenly disappears. There are some who may well say, “Oh, well...” Others may not be so blasé and wish they knew the reason, perhaps in the hopes that something could have been done to preclude these departures.

Much as when people unsubscribe from receiving some emails, many companies generating these emails provide for a reason to be offered. These are not obligatory to the unsubscription, but it serves a purpose. If you feel that we might be able to retain some of those who are lost, perhaps we can encourage Administration to undertake some sort of similar inquiry. I for one wish to see the membership grow and flourish. What say you? Do you think some form of inquiry would be helpful?

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Last edited on 1/01/2022 10:55 PM by GINGERMAN
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goreckimusic2 (0)

1/02/2022 8:31 PM

I can certainly think of one member I'd be glad to be rid of.

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TBLHockeyGeek (76 )

1/03/2022 5:45 AM

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Omg LOL!!!

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BamaJDon41 (10 )

1/02/2022 8:44 PM

There's over 18 thousand current members. Last time I checked over 45% of them had no matches on the site. A lot of guys aren't getting matches either from choice or because of distance. And a lot of guys are only here to chat or check out the photos and there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. There's no reason anyone should get a benefit just for having 10 past opponents. Having opponents doesn't benefit the site or prove anything other than you have access to opponents. I've had a longtime contact suspend his profile here and was uncharacteristically otherwise unreachable for almost six months. I was sure something drastic had happened but it turned out it was only a matter of too many life distractions.

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KOFistBoxer (1)

1/02/2022 11:48 PM

It's a website, not a cult full of immortals.

No group in human history has been able to retain 100% of it's members for all time. That's just totally unrealistic.

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BamaJDon41 (10 )

1/03/2022 6:53 AM

Ridicule and venom. Such lovely 'community minded' responses to a suggestion for ways that inquiries might be made as to why people choose to leave this site.

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SilverFoxFight (39)

1/03/2022 1:14 PM

I figure that some of us are looking more for a filial or even more serious relationship than mere competition or sexual achievements. Those of us, including yourself, who value friendship do well to be annoyed when we've met or chatted often with people who suddenly "disappear" without notice. This isn't just a Meetfighters' issue; we've all had internet "friends" vanish.

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Chiguypuncher (3 )

1/05/2022 1:30 AM

Why are people down voting this? Is this reddit?

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