TobyCarter

Stats

Member since 7.9 years
Age 52
Height 5'7" (170 cm)
Weight 193 lbs (88 kg)
Gender Male
Orientation Gay
Looking for Male
Gear Singlets, shorts and t-shirt, shorts, or no gear.
Languages spoken English
Last login today
Last update 10/04/2022

Location

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  1. USA - Florida, Champions Gate
    Home
  2. USA - Florida, Ormond Beach
    Often in Ormond Beach
  3. USA - Florida, Orlando
    (I'm here between 10/05/2022 and 10/08/2022)
    Hosting at Lake Buena Vista Hotel

I am willing to travel 75 miles

Past opponents

Interests

Olympic / Greco-Roman Olympic / Greco-Roman
Submission Submission

Match structure: Even match, Give and take, Play wrestling, Practicing techniques, Tag team / group fights, Two on one, Workout partner, Not interested in cyber

Specific wrestling styles: Folkstyle, Pool wrestling, Mud/oil wrestling

Miscellaneous interests: Massage, Friendship, Relationship

Fetishes: Jackoff, Wrestling gear

Followers of TobyCarter

Introduction

Hey! I still consider myself a beginner, even after decades of on-and-off wrestling. I will work as hard as I can for the pin or submission, but I place a higher priority on a good fun match than on winning. Things that are important to me: we both have a good experience, neither of us gets hurt, we respect each other's boundaries, and we adjust our wrestling to make the bout as even (give and take) as possible.

I can host at my home (south of the Disney area) on weekdays and some weekends. I'm also happy to come to you or meet in between.

Gear preferences are singlets or shorts for me (at least to start!), and I like for you to wear whatever makes you most comfortable. I have spare singlets to loan out.

I respect all limits and don't mind if it gets erotic when there's chemistry. I can also turn that part off when I wrestle the hetero fellas out there!

Beginners are welcomed and encouraged.

Let's wrestle!

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TobyCarter is recommended by Beta1999

Met up with TobyCarter during a recent group wrestling event. He is reliable and communicates really well. Appreciated his warm and friendly demeanor, and he showed me a couple of wrestling moves that caught me off-guard. He’s pretty strong, and a great opponent. I would certainly wrestle him again if given the opportunity.

11/17/2022

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Beta1999 is recommended by TobyCarter

I had the great pleasure of meeting up with Beta1999 at a small wrestling gathering. We'd had just a few messages back and forth and knew we wanted to get together. Beta has a rockin' body and was all over the mats with everyone in our group. He's got a lot of energy and is a passionate wrestler. He's always very responsive in our messaging and a kind soul that I want to hit the mats with again very soon!

11/14/2022

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TobyCarter is recommended by Twotagfl

Toby is a great guy.
However don't let his kindness fool
you, he is a formidable opponent.
He is totally legit and can handle
himself on the mats.

11/14/2022

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Twotagfl is recommended by TobyCarter

These two gentlemen-wrestlers were kind enough to host a gathering for five local wrestlers to get together and do what we enjoy. While their profile pics do not include their faces, I am sure you won't be disappointed - I certainly wasn't! Their amazing bodies matched their great personalities. We all took turns against one another (sometimes in 3-way struggles) and had a great time. They are particularly earnest in making sure everyone is comfortable and safe. I would absolutely meet up with this couple again anytime.

11/14/2022

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TobyCarter is recommended by Dcahtot101

Toby and I wrestled many times between 2005-2007. He is a true gentleman in and out of the ring/mats/mattress. I will continue to fight him as long we are both able to!!

6/10/2022

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Dcahtot101 is recommended by TobyCarter

I'd like to think I got this guy started down his wrestling path. We've known each other for oh-so-many years, since I lived in Southern California. I'm on the other coast now, so we don't get to visit much anymore, but we keep talking about when we can roll again. I dare say it will be a slightly different style of wrestling in the future now that he's got some more experience! Sweet guy, too. Highly recommend!

11/14/2022

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TobyCarter is recommended by rsl4fun

Update, still an all time favorite after our latest match. Highly recommended.

Good man, good wrestler, great time. Have known him 12 years and wrestled 5 times, always a great experience. Has a strong grip, strong legs, and knows how to keep his opponent trapped when he wants to. Tough to get him trapped though.

7/23/2022

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rsl4fun is recommended by TobyCarter

It's amazing how long we've known each other. I happened upon him in, what I think were, his earliest days of wrestling, and it's been cool to see how he's progressed through the many years since. He's always been a good communicator and reliable. It's been fun seeing how I fare against this guy and seeing how far I can (respectfully) push his limits. Our matches have given me some good memories!

11/14/2022

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Zack M is recommended by TobyCarter

I knew I'd have my hands full with this guy! His reviews tell the story, and I figured I didn't stand much of a chance against him. And I was right! He's a powerhouse, but I'm really glad he put me through the wringer. Sometimes, a guy just needs that. I only got one submission out of him, but I feel very proud of that! Afterward, he turned into the big teddy bear that he is, and let me have my way for a bit. He's yet another in a long list of great guys I've met through this site. I hope we get another chance to wrestle soon.

11/14/2022

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TobyCarter is recommended by knight1701

Took on TobyCarter today after years of talking and trying to set up a match we finally were able to meet today down in Sarasota this guy is strong knows how to use his wrestling hold against you and body weight as well one of the best leg scissors body scissor holds you can encounter and very good arm bars if you want a good match take this guy on I highly recommend him hope to have lots more matches in the near future .

5/15/2022

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TobyCarter is recommended by AnthonynGA

I’m not sure why I didn’t leave a recommendation forever ago, but he’s the real deal and incredibly strong. He’s also just a nice person…who can clamp you in a hold to have you tapping in no time! I continuously hope that we’ll be able to meet again in the future!

1/25/2022

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AnthonynGA is recommended by TobyCarter

Super fun straight guy that I enjoy tangling with! Always great conversation before and after the match, and a fun time during. He was able to get a couple of submissions out of me last time, but I got a few more!

8/06/2018

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ChipVirgo is recommended by TobyCarter

Oh, I really enjoyed my match with ChipVirgo! Yeah, he's a looker, and he's also very easy to arrange a match with. I had fun getting some submissions out of him and even let him get a couple out of me. I don't often work out a structure for the match ahead of time, but it made this match that much better (and it worked to my advantage as it turned out)! I absolutely enjoyed wrestling this guy and hope he'll have me back again soon!

11/02/2021

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TobyCarter is recommended by ghdh40

He's got a wonderful personality and solid wrestling skill. You boys better take him on if you get the chance. We had two fun matches that bookended his vacation in the mountains. After kicking my butt the first time, he must have developed the hunger to pin and submit me some more, and he did just that. Solid wrestler, and easy to converse with over dinner. This stud is a great time.

10/18/2021

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ghdh40 is recommended by TobyCarter

Wow! Perfect 10/10! I met up with this fella at the start and finish of my trip to the Catskill Mountains of New York and am so glad I did. We connected pretty easily and quickly. On our first go, we ended up wrestling for over 4 hours (I only budgeted 2 hours, but I wasn't going to walk away from this guy!). On the back end of my trip, what started as getting together for dinner resulted in an 8-hour visit filled with more great wrestling after we both stuffed ourselves at dinner. This guy is just so easy to get along with and is incredibly good-looking, and a real hoot to roll around with. If you get the chance, don't pass him by. Heck, go out of your way to get with ghdh40!

10/11/2021

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MrJimmy is not recommended by TobyCarter

  • Unreliable / no show

7/23/2021

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TobyCarter is recommended by southernwrestler

Like everyone else has said, TobyCarter is a total powerhouse. Strong guy with some great skill. Off the mats, he's a great host and an even better guy, but once he hits the mats it's on. He can come at you with speed and strength, and if he gets you down good luck trying to escape. I had a great time with him, and I look forward to our next match up. Highly recommend to anyone looking for a challenge!

6/29/2021

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southernwrestler is recommended by TobyCarter

I had an incredible match with southernwrestler. It was quick and easy to set up the match and it was a fun challenge with this hot guy! Like another reviewer said, his legs are strong. Once he gets them around you and locks his ankles, it's nearly impossible to get out of his hold. Fortunately, I was able to outlast his scissors and I don't think he got any submissions out of me for that - not to say he didn't surprise me with some other submissions that had me tapping. Southernwrestler is strong, reliable, safe, and damn good-looking. He gets my highest recommendation!

6/29/2021

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TobyCarter is recommended by Wrestlg

Always looked forward to seeing him at Events and hanging out with him!
Always a fun guy to see, hangout with and to Wrestle!
We rolled at his place in DC, and I remember it was a Blast!

2/06/2019

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Wrestlg is recommended by TobyCarter

It's been years since I met Wrestlg, and it was early in my wrestling career. He's a total blast, though I never fared well against him and his skill. But if I'm going to lose to someone, I want it to be this guy! It's sad we haven't lived near each other since the days in DC, but if we ever cross paths again, I'm going try to score some time on the mat. As if all his other reviews don't give it away, he's highly recommended!

6/29/2021

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mattderris is recommended by TobyCarter

What I like about this guy is that he is from my hometown. However, it took us YEARS to finally get together. And I'm so glad we did. I had a blast with Matt and can't wait to pin his hot ass again real soon!

3/23/2020

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livingforfight is recommended by TobyCarter

I thoroughly enjoyed wrestling this guy while I was in Budapest. My only regret is that I was short of time and didn't get to spend as much time as I'd like. He's a total gentlemen and fun to wrestle!

3/23/2020

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TobyCarter is recommended by Fghtspar

It's been a few years since we met, but I still remember our match vividly. A sweaty aggressive match that went to exhaustion. This guy is tough, fun, and sane. A great conversationalist and interesting guy who can last for hours.

11/13/2019

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Fghtspar is recommended by TobyCarter

I only say this when I really, really mean it, but my matches with this guy have been among my very best. Absolutely everything about my experience with him has been perfect. Kind and interesting man, pleasant to talk to (and pleasant on the eyes), and a fun, even match. I'm going to have to find my way back to CO for another go at him!

11/12/2019

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TobyCarter is recommended by adamnwsa

Ok, TobyCarter looks tough, but I have to admit that I was not expecting him to pack as much power as he did. Even though I was bigger than him, this guy manhandled me well! He is a sneaky, creative and knowledgeable wrestler who knows how to make a man tap! I did get one submission off this stud and it was well earned and hard fought...he didn’t give it to me, i wrenched it out of him and he knows it! I want a rematch!!!! If u get a chance to challenge this guy, do it!

11/12/2019

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adamnwsa is recommended by TobyCarter

I had a great time wrestling Adam at his place. He was very flexible and easy-going to setup a match, and was a gracious host. Good conversation and he provided a nice resistance through the many times I got a submission out of him! To his credit, he was able to get one submission out of me (but maybe I just felt sorry for him and gave him one...).

11/12/2019

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jnet8m is recommended by TobyCarter

I never thought such a little guy could give me such a difficult time on the mat, but he certainly owned me the entire match. He's a total hottie, which may have distracted me a bit off my game, but I think he just out-skilled me. Even though I was put through the ringer, I'd love to do it all again with him!

11/12/2019

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FLGulfGuy is recommended by TobyCarter

It's been several years since I first met FLGulfGuy when he lived in DC, but I'm just now catching up on recommendations... I really enjoyed meeting this guy and wrestling on the mats at his place and at my hotel. It didn't take me long to figure out he had the upper-hand on me. Very skilled and strong. He'd tone-down his level of intensity, but still he made sure I knew who the better wrestler was. We developed quite a nice friendship after meeting on the mat. Great guy and worthy of an investment of your time and effort to wrestle him.

11/12/2019

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Boxing dude is recommended by TobyCarter

It's been a while since I wrestled this guy during his trip to Orlando, but I remember it well. He kicked my ass! Plain and simple. At first glance, I wouldn't have expected him to be so strong and tough. Even more, he was not feeling well and still wiped the mat(tress) with me. Good, tough fighter. He has more of an interest in boxing, but his wrestling skills are superb.

11/12/2019

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I've had the distinct pleasure to meet this slippery little dude. I was hoping for a nicely competitive freestyle or submission match, and did not expect such a well trained jiu-jitsu fighter! He definitely ruled the mat during our match and I couldn't really execute anything against this fighter, but he was gracious and didn't totally destroy me! In fact, as we continued to wrestle that and subsequent days, he took more of a role as coach and trainer. SLD is amazingly patient as I struggled with some of the moves he was teaching. He is one hell of a good looking guy, extremely kind, and quite the athlete. Don't miss out on an opportunity to roll with this tough fighter.

8/04/2019

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wrestlj30 is recommended by TobyCarter

When I read Jervis811's profile, I knew I wanted a match with him. It didn't take long for us to find the time to meet, and I feel special that I was his first match found on MeetFighters. He surprised me with his strength and I had a hard time executing some of my moves against him - at least until I wore him down a little! I got a few submissions out of him, but he's just a decent guy that I enjoyed meeting. Oh, his profile pictures are great, and he is even better looking in person! I felt totally comfortable and safe wrestling Jervis and hope for another chance again real soon.

11/28/2018

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TobyCarter is recommended by BoxWresFL

Had a great match with TobyCarter, very nice,personable guy. Has a lot of effective moves and kept me working the whole time. Perfect balance of serious and playful. Drove a good distance to meet up and was right on time. Definitely recommend!

11/15/2018

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BoxWresFL is recommended by TobyCarter

Wow! What a great time I had wrestling this guy! He's got a nice setup at his place and it felt good to wrestle again in full gear and on a mat. He matches his profile to a tee, and he helped push me along with some punching in our match - not something I usually do, but I really enjoyed it with him. I had the weight advantage, which I used against him, much to his chagrin. But I kind of think he liked me handling him! Don't get me wrong - he's got some strong legs and isn't afraid to use them. He got me to submit a goodly number of times. Oh yeah, he's a total hottie to boot! After we finished beating up on each other, we enjoyed a nice dinner and good chat. I can't wait to get back on the mat with BoxWresNwFL.

11/15/2018

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TobyCarter is recommended by pndfighter

What he "lacks" in experience, he definitely makes up for in sheer pro-activeness. I must say that for someone who says to be a lifelong beginner, he certainly packs a good amount of freestyle technique and the drive to use every ounce of his body to get to where he wants to!
Aside the mats he's a very kind and caring man, interested in and knowledgeable about many things so it was a delight to talk to too after the wrestling was done.
It was a pleasure to spend time with him on and off the mats and I can only say: meet up with him if he's in your area or you might miss out on a great opportunity!

10/11/2018

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pndfighter is recommended by TobyCarter

I don’t know if I can say enough good things about PNDFIGHTER. He was a great communicator leading to our match as I was traveling through Austria. His bountiful reviews attested greatly to his character which I can now personally appreciate. Those same reviews also commented on how well skilled he is, which made me nervous as I do not have the experience he has. However, he was so gracious and accommodating. He did not ‘take it easy’ on me, but instead challenged me while giving me opportunities to work some moves on him (while he lightly mocked me in good fun!). I had such a great time and hope very seriously that I can come back to Austria just to wrestle him again!

10/10/2018

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TobyCarter is recommended by SubPrey

This man was awesome and thoughtful. All though we had to cancel the first time, he was still up to meet the following day. Sweaty match. Strong guy but friendly and kind.

10/05/2018

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SubPrey is recommended by TobyCarter

What a treat it was to meet this fine fellow on my visit to Budapest! He is young and learning, and he has amazingly strong legs. It took everything I had not to submit when he clamped those legs on me! This man is just as he appears on his profile and a great communicator. Hope that you can have the chance to meet with him.

10/05/2018

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TobyCarter is recommended by doyouevenwrestle

some times the BEST THINGS happen spontaneously and this was totally the case with meeting Toby.
picked up a last minute match with him that lined up well and I am so glad I did. Toby and I had great time wrestling together. we had a slower paced back and forth mix of styles an moves.
This strong skilled guy put me in some hot moves and coached me into applying them to him, what else can one ask for right?
All around GREAT guy on and off the mats.
Thank you for the opportunity Toby, it was great

9/19/2018

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doyouevenwrestle is recommended by TobyCarter

What a treat to meet this guy! He's a relative newbie to the wrestling scene, but what a great time we had! He kept the communication flowing and was reliable when we met. Had some great conversation to start out before we got in some submission and freestyle wrestling. When we wore each other out, we kept up some interesting conversation over dinner before parting ways. I won't hesitate to wrestle this guy again, and I think this guy will be a good friend on and off the mat.

9/21/2018

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bayareawrestler is recommended by TobyCarter

I had a great time with this wrestler. He was very clear what he wanted in the match which meant there were no surprises. He's strong on the mat and a super-nice guy after the match. I loved when he towered over me with his strength.

2/09/2018

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Wrestlejeff is recommended by TobyCarter

Wrestlejeff was one of the earlier wrestlers I tangled with many years ago, and although he was bigger, stronger, and gave me a run for the money, it was a great time!

5/07/2017

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TobyCarter is recommended by athletic bud

Had a great match with TobyCarter on his trip to the Bay. I had the height advantage, but he has great finesse and control of his moves. This provided a fun match and workout. Fixing up the match was very easy, and TobyCarter is extremely reliable. Recommend and happy wrestling buddy!

5/01/2017

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athletic bud is recommended by TobyCarter

I had a great match with athletic_bud on my last trip to San Francisco. He was very responsive to messages and completely reliable. His profile was spot-on accurate and he provided exactly the kind of match we were both expecting. Certainly doesn't hurt that he's a great looking guy! I'd meet up for another bout anytime.

5/01/2017

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Yusufu is recommended by TobyCarter

I met up with this stud a couple of times during my travels through Utah. He's one tough and cocky fighter, and he made me work for every little bit. Super nice guy and it's been great seeing him expand and develop his skill over the years. Highly recommended!

5/01/2017

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TobyCarter is recommended by salemathlete

Toby is a strong, powerful wrestler. Had a great time. Fun guy on and off the mat. Definitely worth meeting if in the Orlando area.

12/31/2015

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salemathlete is recommended by TobyCarter

salemathlete has been one of my favorite matches. We had a great time rolling and he's an all-around nice guy. Can't wait to get my hands on him again!

5/01/2017

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Orlandoscissors is recommended by TobyCarter

Great guy!

12/28/2016

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Caught up with Toby while visiting-Strong guy despite his lack of wrestling opportunities that may come his way.Well credentialed and deceivingly strong-drove some way to meet up which was appreciated.oh and thanks for the help with the car lol

12/22/2015

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TobyCarter is recommended by jobberboy99

Had a blast wrestling with him- very strong and really friendly guy. Highly recommended for anyone looking for a fun opponent or heel.

1/20/2015

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jobberboy99 is recommended by TobyCarter

This is one tough jobber! I was expecting an easy match, but I was pleasantly surprised. Nice guy and we've kept up ever since we first met.

1/19/2015

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TobyCarter is recommended by DKnight

Great guy on the mats and off. always reliable and fun. Hit him up if in Orlando and you will have a blast!

1/19/2015

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DKnight is recommended by TobyCarter

We have met a couple of times and he's always reliable, respectful, and a great wrestling partner.

1/18/2015

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robrslr is recommended by TobyCarter

Rob is a champ. Strong wrestler who gives me a run for my money. He's reliable and respectful of limits.

1/18/2015

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